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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 714744" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Wow. My kids are really my everything. That and my husband. I was and am the family of origin scapegoat, except for my grandmother (i was very special to her) and my brother is a goodhearted person who probably never said a mean word in his life. But he moved far away.</p><p></p><p>My family was small (at least those that we saw) and i didnt have much to do with mother and sis most of my life. My kids love me and are not fans of my family of origin so it made no difference that Mom and Sis and a quirky uncle that Mother worshipped picked on me. We had nothing to do with them. It was a blessing. Now though I see why you are so attached to your grandson and I am very sorry your kids joined the family scapegoating. Very sad.i get it more now. I cant tell you how sad that makes me feel.</p><p></p><p>I was in CODA and it helped me tons. But its not for everyone. I know that </p><p></p><p>On the soul family, i was listening to a YouTube video today about soul family and it said that your soul family is not your human family but your guides and angels whom you spend many lifetines with. (I dont know if all who connect to the spirit world think this. I will explore. I am very actively learning about the spirit world and practice the spoken of techniques to peace...and all this has done wonders for me). I get more out of this, which I believe with all my heart, than I got in therapy. It changed me faster and better and my anxiety level, which was always high, has really settled down as I am no longer afraid to die. That lack of death has made me calmer about everything.</p><p></p><p>Anyhow, i am very sorry again that your family made you the scapegoat...and were able to bring your kids into it. Thinking about that almost makes me cry. Its very cruel. My heart is with you. Only a sick family has a scapegoat.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 714744, member: 1550"] Wow. My kids are really my everything. That and my husband. I was and am the family of origin scapegoat, except for my grandmother (i was very special to her) and my brother is a goodhearted person who probably never said a mean word in his life. But he moved far away. My family was small (at least those that we saw) and i didnt have much to do with mother and sis most of my life. My kids love me and are not fans of my family of origin so it made no difference that Mom and Sis and a quirky uncle that Mother worshipped picked on me. We had nothing to do with them. It was a blessing. Now though I see why you are so attached to your grandson and I am very sorry your kids joined the family scapegoating. Very sad.i get it more now. I cant tell you how sad that makes me feel. I was in CODA and it helped me tons. But its not for everyone. I know that On the soul family, i was listening to a YouTube video today about soul family and it said that your soul family is not your human family but your guides and angels whom you spend many lifetines with. (I dont know if all who connect to the spirit world think this. I will explore. I am very actively learning about the spirit world and practice the spoken of techniques to peace...and all this has done wonders for me). I get more out of this, which I believe with all my heart, than I got in therapy. It changed me faster and better and my anxiety level, which was always high, has really settled down as I am no longer afraid to die. That lack of death has made me calmer about everything. Anyhow, i am very sorry again that your family made you the scapegoat...and were able to bring your kids into it. Thinking about that almost makes me cry. Its very cruel. My heart is with you. Only a sick family has a scapegoat. [/QUOTE]
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