Missed the pot, yup.
I don't know then how disabled he really is. Most our "pot smoking" kids are actually doing more drugs than pot; they just won't admit it and we don't want to think it's true. I sure had no clue my daughter was doing anything more than smoking pot and drinking.
In that case, I think drug testing him at random would be good to see what you're dealing with. But if he is really a disabled kid, I'd go for the assisted living. You can't monitor him every minute. He's not able to care for himself. And some of our kids, as sad as it is to us, just will not be able to make it on their own. (((Hugs)))
