Yeah my husband and I have spoken about this in great detail, but bottom line is we are not equipped to raise a baby again, emotionally OR financially. WE chose ourselves not to have children because of this 10 years ago ( we are each other’s 2nd marriage and both our children are grown/ in their 20s) One of us would have to quit our job, which is financially impossible, plus my husband works third shift and lots of doubles leaving him to get 4-5 hours of sleep several times a week. Our lives would be turned upside down. It sounds selfish, and I can’t help but feel that way all the time, BUT -We did not create this issue nor can we take it on.
