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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 83181" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>"Well today brought me back to reality!" <em><strong>What reality?</strong></em> That your son has friends that are thiefs? That they would come into your home and steal your yunger son's belongings? Don't you find it strange that they managed to do this when eldest had a perfect alibi and only took younger son's belongings ... they stole nothing of yours or eldest? I do and I wouldn't be in the least surprised to find out your eldest soon has some funds to buy more drugs with.</p><p></p><p>"Reality always comes back." Sorry, but I'm not convinced things are even remotely different. He <strong>still</strong> lives with you. He still has the right/privilege to abuse anyone and everyone. He still has the right to use drugs and then come home to sleep and eat.</p><p></p><p>"I kept thinking something was going to happen." If you thought htis was going to happen, why didn't you taken steps to prevent it? Such as tell your son in no uncertain terms what would happen if any property of anyone in your house came up missing for any reason? I'm willing to bet if you had and if he thought you would truly follow through, nothing would have been stolen.</p><p></p><p>"I cannot do this anymore." Of course you can. As soon as your anger melts, it will be back to my poor baby and I have to help him, I can't just kick him out and make him fend for himself.</p><p></p><p>"It is fixing to be over." So, when does the "fixing" end and doing begin?</p><p></p><p>It's the same ole, same ole. We're here for you. Honest we are! But all we hear is the same thing over and over and all you get from us is the same advice over and over. Something needs to change and it is obvious our advice won't.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 83181, member: 3626"] "Well today brought me back to reality!" [i][b]What reality?[/b][/i] That your son has friends that are thiefs? That they would come into your home and steal your yunger son's belongings? Don't you find it strange that they managed to do this when eldest had a perfect alibi and only took younger son's belongings ... they stole nothing of yours or eldest? I do and I wouldn't be in the least surprised to find out your eldest soon has some funds to buy more drugs with. "Reality always comes back." Sorry, but I'm not convinced things are even remotely different. He [b]still[/b] lives with you. He still has the right/privilege to abuse anyone and everyone. He still has the right to use drugs and then come home to sleep and eat. "I kept thinking something was going to happen." If you thought htis was going to happen, why didn't you taken steps to prevent it? Such as tell your son in no uncertain terms what would happen if any property of anyone in your house came up missing for any reason? I'm willing to bet if you had and if he thought you would truly follow through, nothing would have been stolen. "I cannot do this anymore." Of course you can. As soon as your anger melts, it will be back to my poor baby and I have to help him, I can't just kick him out and make him fend for himself. "It is fixing to be over." So, when does the "fixing" end and doing begin? It's the same ole, same ole. We're here for you. Honest we are! But all we hear is the same thing over and over and all you get from us is the same advice over and over. Something needs to change and it is obvious our advice won't. [/QUOTE]
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