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<blockquote data-quote="ButCoffeeFirst" data-source="post: 766112" data-attributes="member: 28722">Hi New Leaf,I am so sorry. Your grief thrums through your words, but also your strength and steadfast commitment to stand firm, again, accepting what you cannot change and investing your support and energy where it does make a difference. That is the only path forward ultimately. And you are still on it. Stepping back to guard your sanity is painful, hard and necessary.i don’t want to add another responsibility, but I want to say that your long journey and the hard earned wisdom you have accumulated and share through this board is of enormous benefit to those of us newer to this marathon. You wouldn’t choose to be a member mentor or a support in this club, but since you are I want you to know how much your words here help others. Have helped me. To reflect, to empathise with others and myself (if that can happen), to accept, to allow myself a life beyond sacrificing myself for a loved child that I cannot rescue.Your words help me. And I am so grateful that you post here.Love ButCoffeeFirst</blockquote>

[QUOTE="ButCoffeeFirst, post: 766112, member: 28722"] Hi New Leaf, I am so sorry. Your grief thrums through your words, but also your strength and steadfast commitment to stand firm, again, accepting what you cannot change and investing your support and energy where it does make a difference. That is the only path forward ultimately. And you are still on it. Stepping back to guard your sanity is painful, hard and necessary. i don’t want to add another responsibility, but I want to say that your long journey and the hard earned wisdom you have accumulated and share through this board is of enormous benefit to those of us newer to this marathon. You wouldn’t choose to be a member mentor or a support in this club, but since you are I want you to know how much your words here help others. Have helped me. To reflect, to empathise with others and myself (if that can happen), to accept, to allow myself a life beyond sacrificing myself for a loved child that I cannot rescue. Your words help me. And I am so grateful that you post here. Love ButCoffeeFirst [/QUOTE]

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