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<blockquote data-quote="paperplate" data-source="post: 579998" data-attributes="member: 15831"><p>That's what I think he needs too, BUT 3 weeks ago when he went to the ER, they asked HIM if he was felt like hurting anyone or himself...AFTER I told them about him bowling me over that day, his response was "No, not anymore" and they sent him HOME! Seriously?!?! I felt he needed to stay, but it's like they have to hear HIM say it! Mind you, he did calm down after that....WAY DOWN, like spend the last few weeks sleeping, now he's amped back up again...did I miss something? It started a few days ago with the night wandering again etc...insanely happy etc...then another explosion. I'm at a loss. Meanwhile, my other two our leaving with Grandma when they get home from school, simply because I don't know how long this will last. I feel AWFUL about having them go, but what else can I do? They don't deserve to watch this. I just hope that they understand. Sometimes I feel like DS13 gets all the attention, but it's just that he literally REQUIRES it <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> And now I'm shipping them off to grammys. I hope they know I'm just trying to keep them safe from the drama. I hugged my daughter this morning when I sent her to school and asked her how she was doing and she seemed fine, smiley, talking about her and her lil gal pals etc... Girlscouts, homework, but I have to wonder what she is NOT saying, you know??? How must it feel to have a brother with serious neurological problems? I told her one day, after one of his melt downs, that DS13 is family. We take care of family no matter what. I made it clear that I wasn't excusing his behavior, but that as a mom, I have a serious biological drive to care for them no matter what! I hope she understands that. I can't just abandon him and move on. They're all my children, even the one that's off his rocker. Will she understand that someday? Or will she look back and say 'mom spent most of her time trying to keep DS13 sane!'?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="paperplate, post: 579998, member: 15831"] That's what I think he needs too, BUT 3 weeks ago when he went to the ER, they asked HIM if he was felt like hurting anyone or himself...AFTER I told them about him bowling me over that day, his response was "No, not anymore" and they sent him HOME! Seriously?!?! I felt he needed to stay, but it's like they have to hear HIM say it! Mind you, he did calm down after that....WAY DOWN, like spend the last few weeks sleeping, now he's amped back up again...did I miss something? It started a few days ago with the night wandering again etc...insanely happy etc...then another explosion. I'm at a loss. Meanwhile, my other two our leaving with Grandma when they get home from school, simply because I don't know how long this will last. I feel AWFUL about having them go, but what else can I do? They don't deserve to watch this. I just hope that they understand. Sometimes I feel like DS13 gets all the attention, but it's just that he literally REQUIRES it :( And now I'm shipping them off to grammys. I hope they know I'm just trying to keep them safe from the drama. I hugged my daughter this morning when I sent her to school and asked her how she was doing and she seemed fine, smiley, talking about her and her lil gal pals etc... Girlscouts, homework, but I have to wonder what she is NOT saying, you know??? How must it feel to have a brother with serious neurological problems? I told her one day, after one of his melt downs, that DS13 is family. We take care of family no matter what. I made it clear that I wasn't excusing his behavior, but that as a mom, I have a serious biological drive to care for them no matter what! I hope she understands that. I can't just abandon him and move on. They're all my children, even the one that's off his rocker. Will she understand that someday? Or will she look back and say 'mom spent most of her time trying to keep DS13 sane!'? [/QUOTE]
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