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Yes, she made it to class, not sure how and I believe she has my parents car now.  My mom said they are loaning it to her temporarily until she can afford a car.....that's going to be a long time, but it's not my business, but they make my decisions their business.


[USER=23706]@BusynMember[/USER] - you are correct!  I don't have to defend myself or my decisions to anyone.  I don't call my mom and dad and tell them about their enabling ways or tell them they are wrong for what they are doing.  Like yesterday, I know my dad was scrambling around trying to find my brother a vehicle so that they can give my daughter theirs.  It's crazy!


This guy that she says is the dad is no longer in the picture.  He wants a DNA test, but not sure she will even put in the effort to do that.  Just before my granddaughter was born her boyfriend cheated on her and that's when she came live with us.  Then after 4 months of being with her daughter, she started working at the strip club and drinking.  I am just afraid this same thing will happen this time around, only this baby won't have a dad to go to.


I told her about a job here at my work. All she has to do is send in her resume, but she's dragging her feet.  It would only be answering phones and she can only work until or about October 22nd, which is when the baby is due.  It's full-time work until the baby is born.  Good money, but again, she's dragging her feet.  I would think as someone who needs money and a job would jump at this opportunity, since it will be hard to find a job at this stage in her pregnancy.


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