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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 715290" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>The lies manipulation and deceit, toooed off by the stealing. My Difficult Child stole 10$ of bait money and them helped me look for it. I set out bait money to prove to my husband that he had not changed and is a looking way off from it. My husband is too soft and want to give my son a final chance to remain at home. A big part of me feels guilty about not wanting to. But I am tired and I know he is not ready to change. The "Harm reduction rehab program he is in on an out patient baisis disagrees with us kicking him out. Hell they don't have to live with him. He Called last night at 1 am no way home. I said walk or borrow money from a friend and uber. He said he Ubered. He can't use my uber anymore. After several unauthorized trips we found out he had access. Blocked that pretty quick. </p><p>As soon as he felt he was not going to be kicked out he is right back to being nasty. It's not just the drugs it's his whole attitude. He does have a job with a landscaping company and is enrolled in an alternative high school for the fall to get the renewing 6 credits he needs for his diploma. So I figure have at it what's another few days to convince my husband that Difficult Child is not going to change. He steals, he lies, he blames everyone but himself for his problems. We did call the police and he was arrested for possession of MJ and Coke. He had to face the charges. He ha seven to youth criminal court and bail court several times. And he simply says it's my fault because I had him arrested. Don't sell drugs out of my home and don't bring drugs home! Re his taking my CD-R and coming home high and me finding pot this past Tuesday...it was just a slip it won't happen again. Well his job doesn't seem to care that he had been off 3 of the first 8 days. Can't believe he hasn't been canned. That's not teaching him much. And he says all the guys he works with smoke pit on the job. He says he wants to quit for our family (can tell it's a lie he is manipulating so I don't throw his ass out). We have a family conference today my husband has drawn up a new living agreement for us. Here we go again. I pray it works! But my gut tells me otherwise.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 715290, member: 21895"] The lies manipulation and deceit, toooed off by the stealing. My Difficult Child stole 10$ of bait money and them helped me look for it. I set out bait money to prove to my husband that he had not changed and is a looking way off from it. My husband is too soft and want to give my son a final chance to remain at home. A big part of me feels guilty about not wanting to. But I am tired and I know he is not ready to change. The "Harm reduction rehab program he is in on an out patient baisis disagrees with us kicking him out. Hell they don't have to live with him. He Called last night at 1 am no way home. I said walk or borrow money from a friend and uber. He said he Ubered. He can't use my uber anymore. After several unauthorized trips we found out he had access. Blocked that pretty quick. As soon as he felt he was not going to be kicked out he is right back to being nasty. It's not just the drugs it's his whole attitude. He does have a job with a landscaping company and is enrolled in an alternative high school for the fall to get the renewing 6 credits he needs for his diploma. So I figure have at it what's another few days to convince my husband that Difficult Child is not going to change. He steals, he lies, he blames everyone but himself for his problems. We did call the police and he was arrested for possession of MJ and Coke. He had to face the charges. He ha seven to youth criminal court and bail court several times. And he simply says it's my fault because I had him arrested. Don't sell drugs out of my home and don't bring drugs home! Re his taking my CD-R and coming home high and me finding pot this past Tuesday...it was just a slip it won't happen again. Well his job doesn't seem to care that he had been off 3 of the first 8 days. Can't believe he hasn't been canned. That's not teaching him much. And he says all the guys he works with smoke pit on the job. He says he wants to quit for our family (can tell it's a lie he is manipulating so I don't throw his ass out). We have a family conference today my husband has drawn up a new living agreement for us. Here we go again. I pray it works! But my gut tells me otherwise. [/QUOTE]
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