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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 643314" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You CAN'T trust him. He is a heroin addict. That is potent stuff. When you suffer from the illness addiction you do not care about your kids, your mom, your job, anything when you want drugs. All you want is the drug. Some drugs are harder to kick. Heroin is up there. He will ALWAYS be at risk. I feel sorry for his kids and wish you could care for him without them being around as this is not good for them to see. It just isn't. I'm sure they know.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion he should have to live elsewhere and give you your peace in your own house back. There was no need for this wife to get YOU to take care of his OD. Fast thinking, she should have called 911, but apparently she isn't grown up either.</p><p></p><p>Maybe you are a better person than me. This nonsense would have stopped in my house long ago. Maybe I'm just more coldhearted. But, at the same time, I don't think it does either of those two any favors to live with a "Mommy" figure. Honestly, I can't believe she just didn't do it herself, since it was an obvious OD. Why not let you sleep? You haven't been through enough with this man? Why couldn't SHE drive him if she didn't want to call 911. These are not questions for the board. They are private questions you may want to ask yourself. I'm one who mulls things over...perhaps you are too <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> I am not trying to make you feel bad. I'm just outraged that you are being forced to act like the mommy of a little boy and girl. In the end, you can not save him. He has to save himself and in my opinion growing up and having to live on his own would be one step for both of them. This is more than you should have to handle.</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry for all the hurt and angst you have to go through. I know you must be very tenderhearted to put up with this and I hope that someday you pick yourself over them. Hugs and hoping for the best.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 643314, member: 1550"] You CAN'T trust him. He is a heroin addict. That is potent stuff. When you suffer from the illness addiction you do not care about your kids, your mom, your job, anything when you want drugs. All you want is the drug. Some drugs are harder to kick. Heroin is up there. He will ALWAYS be at risk. I feel sorry for his kids and wish you could care for him without them being around as this is not good for them to see. It just isn't. I'm sure they know. in my opinion he should have to live elsewhere and give you your peace in your own house back. There was no need for this wife to get YOU to take care of his OD. Fast thinking, she should have called 911, but apparently she isn't grown up either. Maybe you are a better person than me. This nonsense would have stopped in my house long ago. Maybe I'm just more coldhearted. But, at the same time, I don't think it does either of those two any favors to live with a "Mommy" figure. Honestly, I can't believe she just didn't do it herself, since it was an obvious OD. Why not let you sleep? You haven't been through enough with this man? Why couldn't SHE drive him if she didn't want to call 911. These are not questions for the board. They are private questions you may want to ask yourself. I'm one who mulls things over...perhaps you are too :) I am not trying to make you feel bad. I'm just outraged that you are being forced to act like the mommy of a little boy and girl. In the end, you can not save him. He has to save himself and in my opinion growing up and having to live on his own would be one step for both of them. This is more than you should have to handle. I'm so sorry for all the hurt and angst you have to go through. I know you must be very tenderhearted to put up with this and I hope that someday you pick yourself over them. Hugs and hoping for the best. [/QUOTE]
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