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Resentful feelings for having an unperfect kid. (looooong, whiny and stupid post)
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<blockquote data-quote="helpangel" data-source="post: 536476" data-attributes="member: 7170"><p>Go for it vent, whine, stomp your feet and Growl; we all need to from time to time. If I didn't I would explode and this house is messy enough! (don't need me splattered all over) </p><p></p><p>I think if we took a poll on this site about 99% of us would have to admit this isn't the life we had in mind when the stick turned blue or the agency said "we found you a child" - I'm sure somewhere here there is a copy of the story of person who packed for Tahiti vacation and ended up in Holland. </p><p></p><p>That pretty much sums it up <strong>life is what happens to us when we were planning something else</strong> ; point being you have accomplished so much despite all the obstacles out there he lived to see adulthood, graduation is happening in the future and he seems to have found something he does well that he enjoys. </p><p></p><p>I understand I get sad that the last decent picture my 17yo took she was only 4yo, she was never in the dance recital or when half my family can't even pick up a phone when receive my first born's college graduation announcement. But in my case, the way I go on is consider Angel in spite of how gloomy things looked at 6yo is still alive at 17yo, that my son in spite of his learning disability and lack of trust fund still got his college degree. </p><p></p><p>I'm so glad we have this place we can dump our frustrations and disappointments, then take stock of our blessings and be able to go on with our day. Take care</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpangel, post: 536476, member: 7170"] Go for it vent, whine, stomp your feet and Growl; we all need to from time to time. If I didn't I would explode and this house is messy enough! (don't need me splattered all over) I think if we took a poll on this site about 99% of us would have to admit this isn't the life we had in mind when the stick turned blue or the agency said "we found you a child" - I'm sure somewhere here there is a copy of the story of person who packed for Tahiti vacation and ended up in Holland. That pretty much sums it up [B]life is what happens to us when we were planning something else[/B] ; point being you have accomplished so much despite all the obstacles out there he lived to see adulthood, graduation is happening in the future and he seems to have found something he does well that he enjoys. I understand I get sad that the last decent picture my 17yo took she was only 4yo, she was never in the dance recital or when half my family can't even pick up a phone when receive my first born's college graduation announcement. But in my case, the way I go on is consider Angel in spite of how gloomy things looked at 6yo is still alive at 17yo, that my son in spite of his learning disability and lack of trust fund still got his college degree. I'm so glad we have this place we can dump our frustrations and disappointments, then take stock of our blessings and be able to go on with our day. Take care [/QUOTE]
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