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<blockquote data-quote="detachingmother" data-source="post: 682022" data-attributes="member: 20063"><p>Ps, I could have gotten Son out of jail a few months ago with $750. But made him stay. He could be out now until sentencing...March 24th, and since about Jan 17th. He could have probably gotten himself out, well he could have, for sure. Someone would have had to take him the money though.... No one would, so I think he knew better to push on that one...My mother almost did, but I stopped her. A part of me was worried if he was out, he might get in more trouble if he was out with her spoiled demands...!!! I also know he needs to stay where is he, simply bc of the drug/mental health treatment he will be ordered to. </p><p></p><p>I am actually hoping he has to go to prison boot camp for 18 months...although I completely torn about thinking this... when this part is over...then girlfriend will undoubtedly go latch onto her next meal ticket long before Son could get out. It would be enough time for Son to grieve it and get stronger. She's only waiting now, bc she's pregnant and feels she has to give birth before getting another man...and, bc he is supposed to not be gone long, only until about July or so. I honestly don't want him away though that long, because he needs to see his daughter. I know he will be good with her.</p><p></p><p>Yep, to see our boys cry is hard enough, but over what a woman is "doing to hurt them" is another problem in itself. I almost cried myself reading that about your son. They do have feelings too!!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> My son has cried and cried over some of the things girlfriend has done, before becoming pregnant. I think this will be too much for him to handle...worried sick.</p><p></p><p>I am happy to hear your son is learning the definition on insanity...doing the same things over and over again. I mean that he is NOT with the mother of baby on that level... Hope my son learns soon. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>Thank you for taking time out of your busy day to talk to me...I will eventually be asking you more questions...I'll Pm you too...I know we are busy people though, so if you are too busy please don't go out of your way, just whenever you can...<img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>I'm off to work here in a few myself...</p><p></p><p>Enjoy your day!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="detachingmother, post: 682022, member: 20063"] Ps, I could have gotten Son out of jail a few months ago with $750. But made him stay. He could be out now until sentencing...March 24th, and since about Jan 17th. He could have probably gotten himself out, well he could have, for sure. Someone would have had to take him the money though.... No one would, so I think he knew better to push on that one...My mother almost did, but I stopped her. A part of me was worried if he was out, he might get in more trouble if he was out with her spoiled demands...!!! I also know he needs to stay where is he, simply bc of the drug/mental health treatment he will be ordered to. I am actually hoping he has to go to prison boot camp for 18 months...although I completely torn about thinking this... when this part is over...then girlfriend will undoubtedly go latch onto her next meal ticket long before Son could get out. It would be enough time for Son to grieve it and get stronger. She's only waiting now, bc she's pregnant and feels she has to give birth before getting another man...and, bc he is supposed to not be gone long, only until about July or so. I honestly don't want him away though that long, because he needs to see his daughter. I know he will be good with her. Yep, to see our boys cry is hard enough, but over what a woman is "doing to hurt them" is another problem in itself. I almost cried myself reading that about your son. They do have feelings too!!! :( My son has cried and cried over some of the things girlfriend has done, before becoming pregnant. I think this will be too much for him to handle...worried sick. I am happy to hear your son is learning the definition on insanity...doing the same things over and over again. I mean that he is NOT with the mother of baby on that level... Hope my son learns soon. :) Thank you for taking time out of your busy day to talk to me...I will eventually be asking you more questions...I'll Pm you too...I know we are busy people though, so if you are too busy please don't go out of your way, just whenever you can...:) I'm off to work here in a few myself... Enjoy your day!!!! [/QUOTE]
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