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Rock bottom for parents of difficult children? Do we need to hit it?
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 763445" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>many of us have suffered this way. I have.</p><p></p><p>here is the thing (short version--arm is broken.)</p><p></p><p>he is no longer your little boy.</p><p>he survived 20 years on his own.</p><p>he will now.</p><p>this is a scam.</p><p>your husband did the right thing. please support him.</p><p>you deserve respect, consideration, and care, <em><strong>especially from yourself.</strong></em></p><p>you do not have a mental illness. <em> this is grief. allow yourself to grieve.</em></p><p>he lies. he uses you. <em> this is not consideration, care, or respect.</em></p><p>the ball is in his court. what that means is there is nothing you can do until he changes. <em>don't hold your breath. </em></p><p>if and until he chooses to be a decent man, stay away. I would not engage at all.<em> to him and the woman, you are his mark.</em></p><p>mothers in no circumstances should be treated this way, </p><p>you must accept this is abuse. and stay away.</p><p>most of us have yearned to die because of this agony. <em>why??</em></p><p><em>you are a wonderful person who has led a life you are proud of.</em></p><p>you are not your son.</p><p>he<strong> not you</strong> is responsible for his choices.</p><p><em>hold him responsible.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 763445, member: 18958"] many of us have suffered this way. I[I] [/I]have. here is the thing (short version--arm is broken.) he is no longer your little boy. he survived 20 years on his own. he will now. this is a scam. your husband did the right thing. please support him. you deserve respect, consideration, and care, [I][B]especially from yourself.[/B][/I] you do not have a mental illness. [I] this is grief. allow yourself to grieve.[/I] he lies. he uses you. [I] this is not consideration, care, or respect.[/I] the ball is in his court. what that means is there is nothing you can do until he changes. [I]don't hold your breath. [/I] if and until he chooses to be a decent man, stay away. I would not engage at all.[I] to him and the woman, you are his mark.[/I] mothers in no circumstances should be treated this way, you must accept this is abuse. and stay away. most of us have yearned to die because of this agony. [I]why?? you are a wonderful person who has led a life you are proud of.[/I] you are not your son. he[B] not you[/B] is responsible for his choices. [I]hold him responsible.[/I] [/QUOTE]
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