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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 560304"><p>Oh AG I feel for you.... I understand the worry and I definitely understand the checking cell phones and look where he has been etc.. I have done all that. However to get off the roller coaster I think you need to stop doing that. He is not going to stop the roller coaster he is on unless he decided to and wants to... but for your own sanity you need to get stop checking up on him to help yourself get off the roller coaster. He is going to do what he wants to do, and he will lie to you to do that. You know that so dont ask him questions you dont really want to know the answers to. </p><p></p><p>Really I can see in a way that not knowing much about what is going on with my son is actually beneficial to me. I have no way of corresponding to him or checking up on him except for FB... and as long as i see something so I know he is alive it has been helpful in a way for me to know less... because in a way the less I know the less I worry.</p><p></p><p>The sober house will figure out soon enough if he is using again and so will the other things that are in place. </p><p></p><p>Is there really any thing you can do or any difference you can make with any of the information you find out?</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 560304"] Oh AG I feel for you.... I understand the worry and I definitely understand the checking cell phones and look where he has been etc.. I have done all that. However to get off the roller coaster I think you need to stop doing that. He is not going to stop the roller coaster he is on unless he decided to and wants to... but for your own sanity you need to get stop checking up on him to help yourself get off the roller coaster. He is going to do what he wants to do, and he will lie to you to do that. You know that so dont ask him questions you dont really want to know the answers to. Really I can see in a way that not knowing much about what is going on with my son is actually beneficial to me. I have no way of corresponding to him or checking up on him except for FB... and as long as i see something so I know he is alive it has been helpful in a way for me to know less... because in a way the less I know the less I worry. The sober house will figure out soon enough if he is using again and so will the other things that are in place. Is there really any thing you can do or any difference you can make with any of the information you find out? TL [/QUOTE]
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