Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Scared and Confused: Depressed brother might be a danger.
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 713124" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Thanks for the update. I'm glad that your mom called the police. It's a start in the right direction. I know it may feel like defeat when the police don't do anything right away but there has been a record started of your brothers violence. It is also very common for people like your brother to calm down once the police have shown up. Having these records on file will go a long way in helping to get him out of your parents home. Laws vary from state to state so even if your parents told him to move out may not be enough, they may have to have him evicted. I know it sounds crazy but I urge you to check with the police and ask them what the law is about getting someone out of your parents home.</p><p></p><p>As I said in my previous post, you and your parents are allowing your abusive brother to manipulate you and control you out of fear. You cannot allow him to do this.</p><p></p><p>My son was very out of control and had quite a temper. When he was destructive in my home I called the police. I called the police several times on my son.</p><p></p><p><strong>Please understand there is no betrayal in calling the police when someone, family or not, is threatening you in your own home.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p></p><p>I agree with SWOT. There are many organizations in place that can help you and your parents.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Great advice from pigless! I suggest you do this.</p><p></p><p>I know you are scared, I've been there! You can get through this and so can your parents. None of this is easy but you can move on from this and live a happy and safe life. I did.</p><p></p><p>I'll say it again, nothing will change until you change how you respond. You cannot allow your brother to control you with fear.</p><p></p><p>Let us know how things are going. We are always here for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 713124, member: 18516"] Thanks for the update. I'm glad that your mom called the police. It's a start in the right direction. I know it may feel like defeat when the police don't do anything right away but there has been a record started of your brothers violence. It is also very common for people like your brother to calm down once the police have shown up. Having these records on file will go a long way in helping to get him out of your parents home. Laws vary from state to state so even if your parents told him to move out may not be enough, they may have to have him evicted. I know it sounds crazy but I urge you to check with the police and ask them what the law is about getting someone out of your parents home. As I said in my previous post, you and your parents are allowing your abusive brother to manipulate you and control you out of fear. You cannot allow him to do this. My son was very out of control and had quite a temper. When he was destructive in my home I called the police. I called the police several times on my son. [B]Please understand there is no betrayal in calling the police when someone, family or not, is threatening you in your own home. [/B] I agree with SWOT. There are many organizations in place that can help you and your parents. Great advice from pigless! I suggest you do this. I know you are scared, I've been there! You can get through this and so can your parents. None of this is easy but you can move on from this and live a happy and safe life. I did. I'll say it again, nothing will change until you change how you respond. You cannot allow your brother to control you with fear. Let us know how things are going. We are always here for you. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Scared and Confused: Depressed brother might be a danger.
Top