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Scheming difficult children and I need a vacation from my vacation +other woes...LONG!
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<blockquote data-quote="Elsieshaye" data-source="post: 524659" data-attributes="member: 12928"><p>Wow, Signorina - I'm so sorry. Sending you lots of warmth and support. </p><p></p><p>(Have you ever checked out a board called bpdfamily.com? Some of the stuff you described with your mother reminded me of stuff I read there - even if your mother doesn't have Borderline (BPD), a lot of the techniques people use to deal with the problem folks in their lives are very helpful even with people who are just challenging and not personality-disordered. It can also be immensely validating to read about a behavior that you've experienced from that person all your life, filed under "normal and unavoidable but unpleasant and may even be my fault somehow", and then realize that it's not you and nothing you do causes it.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Elsieshaye, post: 524659, member: 12928"] Wow, Signorina - I'm so sorry. Sending you lots of warmth and support. (Have you ever checked out a board called bpdfamily.com? Some of the stuff you described with your mother reminded me of stuff I read there - even if your mother doesn't have Borderline (BPD), a lot of the techniques people use to deal with the problem folks in their lives are very helpful even with people who are just challenging and not personality-disordered. It can also be immensely validating to read about a behavior that you've experienced from that person all your life, filed under "normal and unavoidable but unpleasant and may even be my fault somehow", and then realize that it's not you and nothing you do causes it.) [/QUOTE]
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