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Sharing the very last time I will Sis break my heart.
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<blockquote data-quote="svengandhi" data-source="post: 652623" data-attributes="member: 3493"><p>I completely understand toxic sisters. The last time I had contact with mine was when our aunt, the last remaining person in our parent's generation on that side of the family, died. Auntie left me her entire estate and deliberately cut my sister out but I had intended to give sis some of it. Well, I had H call out there and put it on speaker. Sis' "friend" answered and when H identified himself, sis grabbed the phone and said: " I hope you are calling to tell me Sven is dead because I don't want to hear anything else from you." H said, no, Sven is alive but Auntie has died. The next day I had a voice mail - ON MY WORK NUMBER, which I never gave them but which is listed on a public website because I'm a lawyer and it was very docile and apologetic. I called back and left my own voice mail that said: "Just wanted to let you know that Auntie wrote you out of her will. I had been planning to drop some money on you anyway, but not anymore. Have a nice life and don't ever call me again." Then, I filed the will and the Court dealt with her after that.</p><p></p><p>H's sister is toxic as well. She uses her mom as a drug dealer and had H and their mom (who was 80 at the time) arrested for abusing her. She actually had her mom kicked out of her own home and mother in law had to live with us for a year while we fought it out in the courts. Sadly, mother in law didn't learn her lesson and now, at 90, she has her not so daughter living with her again. This time, I have detached from it. </p><p></p><p>I think that you should not deal with your sister anymore. I just have one thing I don't understand - how did your sister find the CD site and know who you were?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="svengandhi, post: 652623, member: 3493"] I completely understand toxic sisters. The last time I had contact with mine was when our aunt, the last remaining person in our parent's generation on that side of the family, died. Auntie left me her entire estate and deliberately cut my sister out but I had intended to give sis some of it. Well, I had H call out there and put it on speaker. Sis' "friend" answered and when H identified himself, sis grabbed the phone and said: " I hope you are calling to tell me Sven is dead because I don't want to hear anything else from you." H said, no, Sven is alive but Auntie has died. The next day I had a voice mail - ON MY WORK NUMBER, which I never gave them but which is listed on a public website because I'm a lawyer and it was very docile and apologetic. I called back and left my own voice mail that said: "Just wanted to let you know that Auntie wrote you out of her will. I had been planning to drop some money on you anyway, but not anymore. Have a nice life and don't ever call me again." Then, I filed the will and the Court dealt with her after that. H's sister is toxic as well. She uses her mom as a drug dealer and had H and their mom (who was 80 at the time) arrested for abusing her. She actually had her mom kicked out of her own home and mother in law had to live with us for a year while we fought it out in the courts. Sadly, mother in law didn't learn her lesson and now, at 90, she has her not so daughter living with her again. This time, I have detached from it. I think that you should not deal with your sister anymore. I just have one thing I don't understand - how did your sister find the CD site and know who you were? [/QUOTE]
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