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<blockquote data-quote="ScentofCedar" data-source="post: 8592" data-attributes="member: 3353"><p>Well, you could ask whether she has any questions about what the rules <strong>are</strong> .</p><p></p><p>You could say something about being glad she has come back home, and tell her you have planned a family meeting to discuss rules and goals and priorities for Wednesday at six or something.</p><p></p><p>If she refuses to consider meeting or discussing rules with you, then you and husband may need to come up with a list of what your own limits are. </p><p></p><p>Just because she refuses to discuss what she needs to do to stay with you, that does not mean you and husband should not be on the same page regarding when she will be asked (or told) to leave.</p><p></p><p>Or, you could avoid any confrontation at all by writing your rules out, along with time limits and consequences, and posting them on the fridge.</p><p></p><p>Let her come to you with any questions.</p><p></p><p>Barbara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ScentofCedar, post: 8592, member: 3353"] Well, you could ask whether she has any questions about what the rules [b]are[/b] . You could say something about being glad she has come back home, and tell her you have planned a family meeting to discuss rules and goals and priorities for Wednesday at six or something. If she refuses to consider meeting or discussing rules with you, then you and husband may need to come up with a list of what your own limits are. Just because she refuses to discuss what she needs to do to stay with you, that does not mean you and husband should not be on the same page regarding when she will be asked (or told) to leave. Or, you could avoid any confrontation at all by writing your rules out, along with time limits and consequences, and posting them on the fridge. Let her come to you with any questions. Barbara [/QUOTE]
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