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<blockquote data-quote="A dad" data-source="post: 643615" data-attributes="member: 18668"><p>Its true that times are different now when I started growing up I found and was able to find a job in a week, true it was not a good job or one where you can have a career but I was 27 and it was just the begining. I wonder now if I decided to grow up now and I was 27 could I find any job if I have no higher education or work experience or both. There are less jobs now and the later you wait without developing any skills the lower are your chances to find a job in anything. This is a thing I am very afraid that my son the longer he waits the less chance he has in finding a job. Now it is his choice not to grow up but at some point I am afraid that society will not let him. Also I am aware that when I was young supporting yourself was way easier, yeah it was better in that way at least. But things have changed and its harder.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes it was not for me and after the girl I grew up for left me I just went with the flow and continued with my life I build because that is what I was left with. I never valued independence a lot or better said never needed for many of my needs to be fulfilled to grow up or better said until I wanted to fulfill some needs higher then the ones on Maslow's hierarchy of needs that where not fulfilled and I needed to grow up to do that. Over the years I analyzed myself a lot.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="A dad, post: 643615, member: 18668"] Its true that times are different now when I started growing up I found and was able to find a job in a week, true it was not a good job or one where you can have a career but I was 27 and it was just the begining. I wonder now if I decided to grow up now and I was 27 could I find any job if I have no higher education or work experience or both. There are less jobs now and the later you wait without developing any skills the lower are your chances to find a job in anything. This is a thing I am very afraid that my son the longer he waits the less chance he has in finding a job. Now it is his choice not to grow up but at some point I am afraid that society will not let him. Also I am aware that when I was young supporting yourself was way easier, yeah it was better in that way at least. But things have changed and its harder. Yes it was not for me and after the girl I grew up for left me I just went with the flow and continued with my life I build because that is what I was left with. I never valued independence a lot or better said never needed for many of my needs to be fulfilled to grow up or better said until I wanted to fulfill some needs higher then the ones on Maslow's hierarchy of needs that where not fulfilled and I needed to grow up to do that. Over the years I analyzed myself a lot. [/QUOTE]
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