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<blockquote data-quote="ck1" data-source="post: 71616" data-attributes="member: 3767"><p>CAmom: It sounds like you're working this out well with your husband and son. Of course this is new to all of you and there are going to be some trial and errors before you have a good idea about what works and what doesn't (I'll be looking for advice from you when my son returns from placement!!). </p><p></p><p>I think everywoman is very right to give your son the opportunity to experience the natural consequences of his actions -- good or bad.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Things that I would do differently would be to insist that he sleep at home every night. Midnight is a very reasonable curfew. I've always felt strongly that my son was up to no good when he wanted to sleep at someones house and I've always told him that nothing good happens after midnight!! Also, I would ask for receipts for all purchases. If he's not hiding anything, he shouldn't have a problem with it. That way, also, you can help him budget and show him where his money is going. I never see how much money I waste until I look where it's gone. Unfortunately, then it's already gone, but it helps me make better decisions in the future!</p><p></p><p>I'm looking forward to reading updates from you and hope that your road ahead isn't too bumpy!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ck1, post: 71616, member: 3767"] CAmom: It sounds like you're working this out well with your husband and son. Of course this is new to all of you and there are going to be some trial and errors before you have a good idea about what works and what doesn't (I'll be looking for advice from you when my son returns from placement!!). I think everywoman is very right to give your son the opportunity to experience the natural consequences of his actions -- good or bad. Things that I would do differently would be to insist that he sleep at home every night. Midnight is a very reasonable curfew. I've always felt strongly that my son was up to no good when he wanted to sleep at someones house and I've always told him that nothing good happens after midnight!! Also, I would ask for receipts for all purchases. If he's not hiding anything, he shouldn't have a problem with it. That way, also, you can help him budget and show him where his money is going. I never see how much money I waste until I look where it's gone. Unfortunately, then it's already gone, but it helps me make better decisions in the future! I'm looking forward to reading updates from you and hope that your road ahead isn't too bumpy! [/QUOTE]
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