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<blockquote data-quote="Littleboylost" data-source="post: 717329" data-attributes="member: 21895"><p>Oh Copa we were right where M was before we asked our son to leave. He declined the drug test as you know. Now admits he would have tested positive for Coke.</p><p>This morning he has no recollection of certain conversations yesterday. This is very tell tale of The amnesia effect of Xanax. He still denies he was using....don't believe it.</p><p>The police called and asked us if we knew where our son was. As I suspected as he was on bail they should not have released him all. OMG what is wrong with our system.</p><p>Bail officer called said he missed his meeting yesterday, she 100% recognizes he is not capable of accepting what outpatient support and bail has to offer. Which is what we told the courts back in May.</p><p>Her society is well connected with the courts and she will discuss Difficult Child with the crown counsel and arrange a meeting with us.</p><p>We want to place him in a position of choosing in patient rehab or jail. In patient rehab or shelter. After a good sleep we know in our hearts bringing him home would be a big mistake. He will slide right back. He has to see the consequences of his life and what they really are.</p><p>Putting him out didn't cause these issues, it may have accelerated his plummet downward but you are all correct we did not cause this predicament. </p><p>Just heard he has been declined bridge housing and the reason is active drug addiction. So it is really now down to jail (I doubt crown will continue with probation after the current charges hit the dock which are now possession of property obtained by crime and a second breach of bail), or rehab. For us it's Bail with rehab or the shelter. He won't be eligible for social service support until he is 18 so he will be in the shelter until then...or rehab. If he does not get to school from the shelter he will not get funding either. Strength for Saturday and I hope they pick him up before then.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Littleboylost, post: 717329, member: 21895"] Oh Copa we were right where M was before we asked our son to leave. He declined the drug test as you know. Now admits he would have tested positive for Coke. This morning he has no recollection of certain conversations yesterday. This is very tell tale of The amnesia effect of Xanax. He still denies he was using....don't believe it. The police called and asked us if we knew where our son was. As I suspected as he was on bail they should not have released him all. OMG what is wrong with our system. Bail officer called said he missed his meeting yesterday, she 100% recognizes he is not capable of accepting what outpatient support and bail has to offer. Which is what we told the courts back in May. Her society is well connected with the courts and she will discuss Difficult Child with the crown counsel and arrange a meeting with us. We want to place him in a position of choosing in patient rehab or jail. In patient rehab or shelter. After a good sleep we know in our hearts bringing him home would be a big mistake. He will slide right back. He has to see the consequences of his life and what they really are. Putting him out didn't cause these issues, it may have accelerated his plummet downward but you are all correct we did not cause this predicament. Just heard he has been declined bridge housing and the reason is active drug addiction. So it is really now down to jail (I doubt crown will continue with probation after the current charges hit the dock which are now possession of property obtained by crime and a second breach of bail), or rehab. For us it's Bail with rehab or the shelter. He won't be eligible for social service support until he is 18 so he will be in the shelter until then...or rehab. If he does not get to school from the shelter he will not get funding either. Strength for Saturday and I hope they pick him up before then. [/QUOTE]
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