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<blockquote data-quote="helpangel" data-source="post: 617579" data-attributes="member: 7170"><p>Based on past behavior of my girls I wouldn't throw away that letter. My first instinct would be to crumple it and throw it in the trash but then I would pick it out flatten it best I could, staple it to the police report and file it in my "AMMO" file. </p><p></p><p>My girls have bipolar and I've learned eventually they stabilize enough to interact with; but it bugs me that they will keep bringing up what I did wrong and not own any of the responsibility for what happened. My ammo file gives me the ammo to get Angel to shut up & realize she brought whatever happened on herself (it wasn't all my fault) </p><p></p><p>When I show her a police report and ask her how I made her rip the wiring out of the police car or made her yell "I'm gonna f#@!ing kill you" then kick that cop (got him in the groin)... it shuts her down on the "I let them restrain her" and blaming me for her psychiatric hospital or jail visit. I believe that day what kept those PO's from seriously hurting her, was my saying "please don't hurt her" and filming the arrest. She was going in no matter what I said or did at that point.</p><p></p><p>Your son is not thinking straight right now and you did what you needed to for the safety of yourself and both your children. That out of control your son could have easily gotten himself killed had he not gone to jail for assaulting his sister and been allowed to run the streets in that frame of mind.</p><p></p><p>Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for things that are not your fault.</p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="helpangel, post: 617579, member: 7170"] Based on past behavior of my girls I wouldn't throw away that letter. My first instinct would be to crumple it and throw it in the trash but then I would pick it out flatten it best I could, staple it to the police report and file it in my "AMMO" file. My girls have bipolar and I've learned eventually they stabilize enough to interact with; but it bugs me that they will keep bringing up what I did wrong and not own any of the responsibility for what happened. My ammo file gives me the ammo to get Angel to shut up & realize she brought whatever happened on herself (it wasn't all my fault) When I show her a police report and ask her how I made her rip the wiring out of the police car or made her yell "I'm gonna f#@!ing kill you" then kick that cop (got him in the groin)... it shuts her down on the "I let them restrain her" and blaming me for her psychiatric hospital or jail visit. I believe that day what kept those PO's from seriously hurting her, was my saying "please don't hurt her" and filming the arrest. She was going in no matter what I said or did at that point. Your son is not thinking straight right now and you did what you needed to for the safety of yourself and both your children. That out of control your son could have easily gotten himself killed had he not gone to jail for assaulting his sister and been allowed to run the streets in that frame of mind. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty for things that are not your fault. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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