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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 389505" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>BINGO! His daughter was in that state and her mother had to have state assistance while raising her so the state "claimed" they went after him but honestly, sending a cop to the door to knock so the person can look out the window and see who it is then walk out the back door isn't very effective. (He told me himself this is how he dodged them for YEARS). So, being that it's this state's Department of Juvenile Justice, they will do minimally less than that- the state assistance isn't costing them as much as it would if difficult child lived in that state but since there are state "agreements' they might put on a show of an effort. But me- oh they told me years ago that unless I hired a private investigator to somehow force him into court, I could probably forget it. Fine- but this state could force it and it really irks me that they don't. I'm not surprised though- this state used to have a law on the books for YEARS that if a child was born out of wedlock and one of the parents was not a resident of this state, they would NOT pursue any legal actions, including CS, against that parent.</p><p></p><p>Many times- with stuff like this as well as with the attitudes towards MH issues and MH providers seeming so ignorant, too- I really can't believe that we still aren't in a society like the 1950's.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 389505, member: 3699"] BINGO! His daughter was in that state and her mother had to have state assistance while raising her so the state "claimed" they went after him but honestly, sending a cop to the door to knock so the person can look out the window and see who it is then walk out the back door isn't very effective. (He told me himself this is how he dodged them for YEARS). So, being that it's this state's Department of Juvenile Justice, they will do minimally less than that- the state assistance isn't costing them as much as it would if difficult child lived in that state but since there are state "agreements' they might put on a show of an effort. But me- oh they told me years ago that unless I hired a private investigator to somehow force him into court, I could probably forget it. Fine- but this state could force it and it really irks me that they don't. I'm not surprised though- this state used to have a law on the books for YEARS that if a child was born out of wedlock and one of the parents was not a resident of this state, they would NOT pursue any legal actions, including CS, against that parent. Many times- with stuff like this as well as with the attitudes towards MH issues and MH providers seeming so ignorant, too- I really can't believe that we still aren't in a society like the 1950's. [/QUOTE]
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