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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 389606" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>DJ- since his ex helped him dodge his legal requirement to pay you CS before she even qualified to get it from him, I think your portion should get paid out of hers now- not after the CS gets paid for the younger kids. I seriouslly doubt either state would make difficult child's father pay entire amount of CS for difficult child before paying what he owes on his daughter first because that order was in effect first. </p><p></p><p>But that story sounds pretty familiar. difficult child's father had a second wife who he had just split from when I met him. She had covered him like that for 10 years to keep him from getting caught for not paying CS on his daughter (from first wife). I think he intentionally got me pregnant because he was trying to set me up to support him and hide him thinking I'd do it if he convinced me he'd be around for the baby that way. Of course I didn't know about all the previous CS issues and so forth until after I was pregnant and he told me and said I'd have to pay off the CS he owed on the daughter if I wanted him around for this baby. Well, you see how well that manipulative tactic worked with me. It is beyond me why any woman would cover a man from paying his CS- if he is eluding police to prevent paying it for the first child, he'll do it to get out of paying it for subsequent children. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out. And he claimed that the daughter wasn't his but refused to take the test as long as he could, too, until they finally caught up with him and forced him. That's another typical thing dead beat dads do that I can't believe people fall for- if it was going to make a difference in how they treated the baby or took care of it, they would be beating down the door to find out if the baby is biologically theirs. If they are claiming it's not but run from taking the test, then they will never care about that baby, either way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 389606, member: 3699"] DJ- since his ex helped him dodge his legal requirement to pay you CS before she even qualified to get it from him, I think your portion should get paid out of hers now- not after the CS gets paid for the younger kids. I seriouslly doubt either state would make difficult child's father pay entire amount of CS for difficult child before paying what he owes on his daughter first because that order was in effect first. But that story sounds pretty familiar. difficult child's father had a second wife who he had just split from when I met him. She had covered him like that for 10 years to keep him from getting caught for not paying CS on his daughter (from first wife). I think he intentionally got me pregnant because he was trying to set me up to support him and hide him thinking I'd do it if he convinced me he'd be around for the baby that way. Of course I didn't know about all the previous CS issues and so forth until after I was pregnant and he told me and said I'd have to pay off the CS he owed on the daughter if I wanted him around for this baby. Well, you see how well that manipulative tactic worked with me. It is beyond me why any woman would cover a man from paying his CS- if he is eluding police to prevent paying it for the first child, he'll do it to get out of paying it for subsequent children. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out. And he claimed that the daughter wasn't his but refused to take the test as long as he could, too, until they finally caught up with him and forced him. That's another typical thing dead beat dads do that I can't believe people fall for- if it was going to make a difference in how they treated the baby or took care of it, they would be beating down the door to find out if the baby is biologically theirs. If they are claiming it's not but run from taking the test, then they will never care about that baby, either way. [/QUOTE]
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