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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 389841" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>Around here, they threaten a lot. In fact the judge at one point more than TRIPLED husband's support, basing it on what he THOUGHT husband should make, then backdated it a year. This put him so far behind (he had been caught up, even a bit ahead at the time) that CSEA immediately issued a warrant for his arrest. Within 24 hours of court. He got out of it by showing up to the CSEA offices.</p><p> </p><p>Two months later, he was ordered a $2200 credit on support... It took 18 months to have it credited.</p><p> </p><p>Their website says BM is $150 in arrears. My math says more like $1500 (would be more except for a nice little tax refund...). husband requested an audit. The paperwork is so convoluted, I gave up.</p><p> </p><p>BM is paying 34.11% of what the court says it should take to support the kids... Based on a year in which she worked 8 months at 20 hours a week. husband's portion - that 65.89% - is based, again, on what the judge THINKS he should make... Never mind the out of work bit, partially (not entirely) caused by having to take massive amounts of time off work to do the court's job...</p><p> </p><p>...And CSEA, when she was over $2500 in arrears, sent her a letter. AFTER husband called to tell them where she was working (info thanks to Onyxx being in psychiatric hospital in 2008).</p><p> </p><p>Fact is, system's broken. A few places are working on it - like FL. But mostly... The kids are the ones who get hurt by it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 389841, member: 6705"] Around here, they threaten a lot. In fact the judge at one point more than TRIPLED husband's support, basing it on what he THOUGHT husband should make, then backdated it a year. This put him so far behind (he had been caught up, even a bit ahead at the time) that CSEA immediately issued a warrant for his arrest. Within 24 hours of court. He got out of it by showing up to the CSEA offices. Two months later, he was ordered a $2200 credit on support... It took 18 months to have it credited. Their website says BM is $150 in arrears. My math says more like $1500 (would be more except for a nice little tax refund...). husband requested an audit. The paperwork is so convoluted, I gave up. BM is paying 34.11% of what the court says it should take to support the kids... Based on a year in which she worked 8 months at 20 hours a week. husband's portion - that 65.89% - is based, again, on what the judge THINKS he should make... Never mind the out of work bit, partially (not entirely) caused by having to take massive amounts of time off work to do the court's job... ...And CSEA, when she was over $2500 in arrears, sent her a letter. AFTER husband called to tell them where she was working (info thanks to Onyxx being in psychiatric hospital in 2008). Fact is, system's broken. A few places are working on it - like FL. But mostly... The kids are the ones who get hurt by it. [/QUOTE]
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