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Sister out of house, what rights do we have with her stuff?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 714689" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I would stop trying to fix your family. You cant. Whether its good for your sister or not or you dont like how your parents are handling things or whether you dont want sister there or not it is their house and people do what they want to do. It doesnt sound like Dad will let sister go. And you cant stop it. Why even get involved in the drama? You spoke your mind and explained legalities. Now it is up to them. Or not. You cant force it.</p><p></p><p>You can talk until ypu are blue in the face. The fact is, the ball IS in their court, not yours. It never was in your court.it doesnt involve you, which is good. What a mess! Be happy it is not your mess.</p><p></p><p>My suggestion is to let it go and build your own life. You have a valuable, precious life but are not urilizing it while you try to fix your family. </p><p></p><p>I feel its best to tell yourself over and over again to let go.if you have a higher power give the problems to the higher power/Universe/God/anything. It is a problem too big for one person to fix. You must have personal friends, interests, goals....focus on YOU. This is not your problem. Your own life matters.</p><p></p><p>I wish you the best of luck <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 714689, member: 1550"] I would stop trying to fix your family. You cant. Whether its good for your sister or not or you dont like how your parents are handling things or whether you dont want sister there or not it is their house and people do what they want to do. It doesnt sound like Dad will let sister go. And you cant stop it. Why even get involved in the drama? You spoke your mind and explained legalities. Now it is up to them. Or not. You cant force it. You can talk until ypu are blue in the face. The fact is, the ball IS in their court, not yours. It never was in your court.it doesnt involve you, which is good. What a mess! Be happy it is not your mess. My suggestion is to let it go and build your own life. You have a valuable, precious life but are not urilizing it while you try to fix your family. I feel its best to tell yourself over and over again to let go.if you have a higher power give the problems to the higher power/Universe/God/anything. It is a problem too big for one person to fix. You must have personal friends, interests, goals....focus on YOU. This is not your problem. Your own life matters. I wish you the best of luck ;) [/QUOTE]
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