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<blockquote data-quote="Melbourne11" data-source="post: 689424" data-attributes="member: 20393"><p>Thank you so much for the replies. I slept better last last night and do not feel so drained. </p><p>I am going to stay away from m daughter. o amount of talking or her or me saying sorry is going to put this right. Or stop it from happening again. I am praying she seeks help. However I doubt it. </p><p>I know that he is able to regulate herself around her friends/ acquaintances and at work. It only seems to be those people she has a close relationship with that she targets. That is me and her past two relationships. All of these have resulted in violence at some point. The first guy was several years of fights, police being called and separation and then reunite. The last one was instant love. He had moved in after a weeks with her. But the arguments started and then there was violence. I feel bad because deep down I knew that she will have targeted him. However I stood by her as she lied to the police. </p><p>I moved away a few years ago. We had limited contact over phone and Skype. However she followed me and now lives not far from me. She is bringing chaos back into my life. Although to the outside world she presents as happy and lovely. And she can be !! That I why I find it so hard to understand. I really feel I am dealing with two people. The daughter I want and need and the stranger who wants to hurt and enjoys seeing me in pain.</p><p>I will stay strong this time. I have to remember I am dealing with the stranger all o the time. She just pretends to be my daughter to manipulate me. I don't want to live in fear. It really is like walking on egg shells. I am also going to see if I can see a psychologist who might help me. I am doing what I never wanted to do. Turn my back on my daughter an admit I can not help her.</p><p>Thank you so much for listening. I hope to repay the favor one day. Until you have lived the experience it is impossible to understand.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Melbourne11, post: 689424, member: 20393"] Thank you so much for the replies. I slept better last last night and do not feel so drained. I am going to stay away from m daughter. o amount of talking or her or me saying sorry is going to put this right. Or stop it from happening again. I am praying she seeks help. However I doubt it. I know that he is able to regulate herself around her friends/ acquaintances and at work. It only seems to be those people she has a close relationship with that she targets. That is me and her past two relationships. All of these have resulted in violence at some point. The first guy was several years of fights, police being called and separation and then reunite. The last one was instant love. He had moved in after a weeks with her. But the arguments started and then there was violence. I feel bad because deep down I knew that she will have targeted him. However I stood by her as she lied to the police. I moved away a few years ago. We had limited contact over phone and Skype. However she followed me and now lives not far from me. She is bringing chaos back into my life. Although to the outside world she presents as happy and lovely. And she can be !! That I why I find it so hard to understand. I really feel I am dealing with two people. The daughter I want and need and the stranger who wants to hurt and enjoys seeing me in pain. I will stay strong this time. I have to remember I am dealing with the stranger all o the time. She just pretends to be my daughter to manipulate me. I don't want to live in fear. It really is like walking on egg shells. I am also going to see if I can see a psychologist who might help me. I am doing what I never wanted to do. Turn my back on my daughter an admit I can not help her. Thank you so much for listening. I hope to repay the favor one day. Until you have lived the experience it is impossible to understand. [/QUOTE]
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