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<blockquote data-quote="Crayola13" data-source="post: 756153" data-attributes="member: 21066"><p>I dated a scapegoat in high school. His siblings got cars. He was lucky to get a pack of gum. The siblings got new clothes even if they didn't work summer jobs. He was outgrowing his clothes and the ones that fit were 10 years out of style because they wouldn't let him spend money from his job on decent clothes. No new or nice clothes for him. No hugs for him, but hugs for his siblings. Nothing was ever good enough. His parents took money out of his college savings because they fell on hard times, but then they would spend it at nice restaurants and fly to California for non-essential trips. His parents didn't speak to him for quite a while because he didnt get a scholarship like his siblings did. The siblings went to the salon for a haircut. He got his hair cut at home. His parents never gave him attention. Even now, his parents don't make over his kids as much as their other grandchildren. </p><p></p><p>I doubt you treated your kid that way, so I don't think there was scapegoating.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Crayola13, post: 756153, member: 21066"] I dated a scapegoat in high school. His siblings got cars. He was lucky to get a pack of gum. The siblings got new clothes even if they didn't work summer jobs. He was outgrowing his clothes and the ones that fit were 10 years out of style because they wouldn't let him spend money from his job on decent clothes. No new or nice clothes for him. No hugs for him, but hugs for his siblings. Nothing was ever good enough. His parents took money out of his college savings because they fell on hard times, but then they would spend it at nice restaurants and fly to California for non-essential trips. His parents didn't speak to him for quite a while because he didnt get a scholarship like his siblings did. The siblings went to the salon for a haircut. He got his hair cut at home. His parents never gave him attention. Even now, his parents don't make over his kids as much as their other grandchildren. I doubt you treated your kid that way, so I don't think there was scapegoating. [/QUOTE]
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