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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 756214" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>If we took a poll of our very beloved and entitled adult kids who made horrible life choices, my guess is all of them would claim to be scapegoated. It is as if they can't hurt us enough. They think of ways to gaslight us and to pour on the pain.</p><p></p><p>Truly scapegoated kids, those whose parents mistreat them and give more to the other kids, would not be on this forum crying over their beloved children nor would these kids who cry that they didn't get enough get what our kids received.</p><p></p><p>Kay claims we didn't love her as much as her siblings yet she got more love, fuss, time and certainly more material items than her two siblings combined. Looking back, we apologized to our two other kids for giving Kay all of our time. We were focused on trying to save her and the other two did not seem to need that amount of attention. My husband and I regret this deeply now. Our other kids are so forgiving. And Kay? Well, we abused her. She has amnesia about her entire life it seems.</p><p></p><p>This is one way they get us to feel guilty....gaslighting.</p><p></p><p>Prayers and love for all who know what it feels like to be wrongfully accused of bad things by our beloved children.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 756214, member: 23706"] If we took a poll of our very beloved and entitled adult kids who made horrible life choices, my guess is all of them would claim to be scapegoated. It is as if they can't hurt us enough. They think of ways to gaslight us and to pour on the pain. Truly scapegoated kids, those whose parents mistreat them and give more to the other kids, would not be on this forum crying over their beloved children nor would these kids who cry that they didn't get enough get what our kids received. Kay claims we didn't love her as much as her siblings yet she got more love, fuss, time and certainly more material items than her two siblings combined. Looking back, we apologized to our two other kids for giving Kay all of our time. We were focused on trying to save her and the other two did not seem to need that amount of attention. My husband and I regret this deeply now. Our other kids are so forgiving. And Kay? Well, we abused her. She has amnesia about her entire life it seems. This is one way they get us to feel guilty....gaslighting. Prayers and love for all who know what it feels like to be wrongfully accused of bad things by our beloved children. [/QUOTE]
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