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Slleping with the doors locked and now difficult child left
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 166112" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Jo,</p><p> </p><p>I think you and H should celebrate being on the same page and the END of accepting the drama. Celebrate taking back your lives and your home.</p><p> </p><p>This probably sounds callous or uncaring. It isn't meant to be. It is just so HARD to get on the same page, to do what you are doing, to really SEE that difficult child's life is the result of HER CHOICES. Finally having you BOTH understand that is truly a wonderful thing for your relationship.</p><p> </p><p>It is easy to see our kids as victims, to keep helping them, to not be strong enough to make the child stand on their own. finding the strength to STOP this pattern is something to be celebrated, as it shows YOUR growth.</p><p> </p><p>I hope your difficult child does not have a front door key, or a key to any other door. It would be good to make sure. </p><p> </p><p>I am sorry she has come to this point. It is sad to see. </p><p> </p><p>I hope this is not offensive, it is notmeant to be. I totally support what you are doing, and hope that if she comes and hurts you, H, easy child, the puppy, or your property tehn she gets teh appropriate consequences. </p><p> </p><p>She truly is skewed in her thinking, and there is nothing that can be done about that but to separate yourself from it.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs,</p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 166112, member: 1233"] Jo, I think you and H should celebrate being on the same page and the END of accepting the drama. Celebrate taking back your lives and your home. This probably sounds callous or uncaring. It isn't meant to be. It is just so HARD to get on the same page, to do what you are doing, to really SEE that difficult child's life is the result of HER CHOICES. Finally having you BOTH understand that is truly a wonderful thing for your relationship. It is easy to see our kids as victims, to keep helping them, to not be strong enough to make the child stand on their own. finding the strength to STOP this pattern is something to be celebrated, as it shows YOUR growth. I hope your difficult child does not have a front door key, or a key to any other door. It would be good to make sure. I am sorry she has come to this point. It is sad to see. I hope this is not offensive, it is notmeant to be. I totally support what you are doing, and hope that if she comes and hurts you, H, easy child, the puppy, or your property tehn she gets teh appropriate consequences. She truly is skewed in her thinking, and there is nothing that can be done about that but to separate yourself from it. Hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]
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