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Slleping with the doors locked and now difficult child left
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<blockquote data-quote="Coookie" data-source="post: 166194" data-attributes="member: 1587"><p>Jo,</p><p> </p><p>Sending many, many hugs to you. You have gotten so many words of wisdom that I really have nothing to add but this. </p><p> </p><p>For me, detaching has been a long, painful process and it is a never ending one I believe. I also believe that there is a neverending pain in our mother's hearts for the difficult child we love and the propensity towards feeling guilty when we think of the "what if's" and take their words to heart.</p><p> </p><p>They know the words to say, or write, to bring us to our knees if we let them. After all, they do know how much we love them.... </p><p> </p><p>I spent a few nights with my bedroom door locked, in that fear... not a good place. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p><p> </p><p>You and husband hang tough. I told my difficult child that I was getting too old, and tired, for all the drama and I meant it. I really am...</p><p> </p><p>Sending more hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Coookie, post: 166194, member: 1587"] Jo, Sending many, many hugs to you. You have gotten so many words of wisdom that I really have nothing to add but this. For me, detaching has been a long, painful process and it is a never ending one I believe. I also believe that there is a neverending pain in our mother's hearts for the difficult child we love and the propensity towards feeling guilty when we think of the "what if's" and take their words to heart. They know the words to say, or write, to bring us to our knees if we let them. After all, they do know how much we love them.... I spent a few nights with my bedroom door locked, in that fear... not a good place. :( You and husband hang tough. I told my difficult child that I was getting too old, and tired, for all the drama and I meant it. I really am... Sending more hugs. [/QUOTE]
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