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SNARL! Just another rant about the enabling dad.....
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 444886" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Buy hid loan or at least........1/2 of it. In theory - sounds nuts right? Hear me out. Care to make a small wager? </p><p></p><p>Okay here's the deal you make with Daddy Dumbest. Tell him that YOU WILL PAY HIM 305.50 UNLESS ------his daughter starts applying for a job and scans her applications and forwards them to BOTH yours and his emails immediately, and if they are not paper applications? If she fills them out on line? She forwards the emails to both yours and his emails of the VERIFICATIONS that she gets from each place that sends her the confirmations of emails when she's filled out the applications because they ALL do that. Trust me - they do. </p><p></p><p>Now based on the amount owed - $51.00 a month - </p><p>Breaks down to $12.75 a week</p><p>Divided by 5 days of work or 2.55 applications needed a day (crazy math but I figure 12.75 divided by 5 = roughly 3) </p><p></p><p>This would increase HER chances of finding a job each week by 15 applications - for part time to full time jobs thus enabling her to come up with a job at minimum wage of $7.50 an hour @20 hours a week which is $150.00 before taxes - and take home of about 115.50 net. x 4 weeks or 462.00 her first month. TOTALLY doo able. TO pay her Dad back in 3 months. OR depending on the deal you make with X? less time. Maybe she'd LIKE to show her Dad she's NOT a liar and IS looking for a job? </p><p></p><p>Now the cool thing about this is - 1.) she MAY get a job in which she will still pay her Dad back possibly only 1/2 the money 2.) She's no longer doing nothing to get a job. 3.) No more hanging out with doofer 4.) You get shown up and have to pay x some money and he makes out like a bandit paid off early by shown up wife and non liar daughter. My thought - Daughter not a liar, out of house, working and out of your hair - worth the money. Put a counter deal in place that if she doesn't keep the job for X amount of months HE pays YOU back the cash and he agrees to let her fall and no more money for baby,. </p><p></p><p></p><p>The downside could be 1.) Her dad finds out she's a LIAR as you told us. 2.) she's stuck IN your house without a car miserable teen under your nose. 3.) YOu are right, but well that's not bad. </p><p></p><p></p><p>Just a thought - I mean kids especially teen girls LOVE to prove people wrong.....and if she's having to show YOU and Dad every day - her progress? NOT Just getting cards from places or going there and taking Iphone pictures....but real honest to gosh applications or emails.....of completed on line apps? Yeah - hows she gonna wiggle out of that? She's not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 444886, member: 4964"] Buy hid loan or at least........1/2 of it. In theory - sounds nuts right? Hear me out. Care to make a small wager? Okay here's the deal you make with Daddy Dumbest. Tell him that YOU WILL PAY HIM 305.50 UNLESS ------his daughter starts applying for a job and scans her applications and forwards them to BOTH yours and his emails immediately, and if they are not paper applications? If she fills them out on line? She forwards the emails to both yours and his emails of the VERIFICATIONS that she gets from each place that sends her the confirmations of emails when she's filled out the applications because they ALL do that. Trust me - they do. Now based on the amount owed - $51.00 a month - Breaks down to $12.75 a week Divided by 5 days of work or 2.55 applications needed a day (crazy math but I figure 12.75 divided by 5 = roughly 3) This would increase HER chances of finding a job each week by 15 applications - for part time to full time jobs thus enabling her to come up with a job at minimum wage of $7.50 an hour @20 hours a week which is $150.00 before taxes - and take home of about 115.50 net. x 4 weeks or 462.00 her first month. TOTALLY doo able. TO pay her Dad back in 3 months. OR depending on the deal you make with X? less time. Maybe she'd LIKE to show her Dad she's NOT a liar and IS looking for a job? Now the cool thing about this is - 1.) she MAY get a job in which she will still pay her Dad back possibly only 1/2 the money 2.) She's no longer doing nothing to get a job. 3.) No more hanging out with doofer 4.) You get shown up and have to pay x some money and he makes out like a bandit paid off early by shown up wife and non liar daughter. My thought - Daughter not a liar, out of house, working and out of your hair - worth the money. Put a counter deal in place that if she doesn't keep the job for X amount of months HE pays YOU back the cash and he agrees to let her fall and no more money for baby,. The downside could be 1.) Her dad finds out she's a LIAR as you told us. 2.) she's stuck IN your house without a car miserable teen under your nose. 3.) YOu are right, but well that's not bad. Just a thought - I mean kids especially teen girls LOVE to prove people wrong.....and if she's having to show YOU and Dad every day - her progress? NOT Just getting cards from places or going there and taking Iphone pictures....but real honest to gosh applications or emails.....of completed on line apps? Yeah - hows she gonna wiggle out of that? She's not. [/QUOTE]
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