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So Angry at All the Lying, Stealing and Sneaking
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<blockquote data-quote="WSM" data-source="post: 270158" data-attributes="member: 5169"><p>OMG, I could have cried reading this. I so identify, our lives are perverted and distorted by having to protect ourselves. We have everything locked up and on camera and watched too. If you take your eyes off a second, just a second something is missing. Every weekend my husband (my DuH?) my husband wants to try to trust him again. And every weekend there's an incident. Last weekend we were on the patio for less than 90 second (we timed it). My husband's wallet disappeared. husband looked in his room and couldn't find it. I told him: "You have to pick everything up, look in ever pocket, move every piece of furniture, touch everything." husband looked in his room twice and didn't find it. I went in, lifted the stuff ontop of his dresser, then opened the top drawer, lift out the clothes, and there it was. </p><p> </p><p>Six days later husband is lecturing difficult child again, "I'm going to trust you." and sure enough difficult child gets his hands on some money. He's been borrowing odd amounts from the instructors at his military school to buy things at the next door 7 11. He's been told not to, but he lies about it. </p><p> </p><p>Why do they lend it to him? I swear to dog the school is as much a problem as the kid. THEY are the ones with impulse control problems. How hard is it: do not give him money, do not let him leave campus. DO NOT.</p><p> </p><p>Jeez.</p><p> </p><p>(Are we the only house where syrup and cooking oil are contraband?)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WSM, post: 270158, member: 5169"] OMG, I could have cried reading this. I so identify, our lives are perverted and distorted by having to protect ourselves. We have everything locked up and on camera and watched too. If you take your eyes off a second, just a second something is missing. Every weekend my husband (my DuH?) my husband wants to try to trust him again. And every weekend there's an incident. Last weekend we were on the patio for less than 90 second (we timed it). My husband's wallet disappeared. husband looked in his room and couldn't find it. I told him: "You have to pick everything up, look in ever pocket, move every piece of furniture, touch everything." husband looked in his room twice and didn't find it. I went in, lifted the stuff ontop of his dresser, then opened the top drawer, lift out the clothes, and there it was. Six days later husband is lecturing difficult child again, "I'm going to trust you." and sure enough difficult child gets his hands on some money. He's been borrowing odd amounts from the instructors at his military school to buy things at the next door 7 11. He's been told not to, but he lies about it. Why do they lend it to him? I swear to dog the school is as much a problem as the kid. THEY are the ones with impulse control problems. How hard is it: do not give him money, do not let him leave campus. DO NOT. Jeez. (Are we the only house where syrup and cooking oil are contraband?) [/QUOTE]
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