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<blockquote data-quote="vligrl" data-source="post: 510545" data-attributes="member: 14003"><p>So last night I made my son come home early to get things straight on how it's going to be here. I wrote it all down first which helped keep me on target. I explained that drug use will no longer be tolerated and if I find anything drug related, I will call the police. If he comes home obviously high or smiling of pot, I will not let him in and will call the police including on his friends. I told him to take a good long look in the mirror and ask if this is the person he wants to see five years from now doing the same old thing just with younger people, the one's that didn't leave for college yet. To us, he hasn't grown as a person in years, hasn't put on any weight and he is 6'1", 135lbs. Not giving him a key anymore to get in the house. He has to pass the eye and sniff test first. I told him to get off drugs completely for a month to start and see if your thinking doesn't clear up, you get more motivated to do things and feel the fog lift. He agreed to stay off and to drug test him starting in two weeks and he will stay in school. No use in testing him for pot now since I know he had it Monday and it usually takes over 30 days to leave your system. If he does acid, it only stays in your system for about 2 hours and most tests don't work. He also will not have the car and has to get a job. Today I took him to fill out one app and to ask a few other businesses if they are hiring, which they weren't. Day by day.</p><p>My husband paid the deposit for my son to take a 10 day trip to Israel with other groups. This is what I am looking forward to the most for him. He will get the deposit back once he takes the trip. Money comes straight back to my husband. We have some relatives there, so maybe he'll meet them too. Funny side note: found out one of his passwords is "parentsdonttrustme".</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="vligrl, post: 510545, member: 14003"] So last night I made my son come home early to get things straight on how it's going to be here. I wrote it all down first which helped keep me on target. I explained that drug use will no longer be tolerated and if I find anything drug related, I will call the police. If he comes home obviously high or smiling of pot, I will not let him in and will call the police including on his friends. I told him to take a good long look in the mirror and ask if this is the person he wants to see five years from now doing the same old thing just with younger people, the one's that didn't leave for college yet. To us, he hasn't grown as a person in years, hasn't put on any weight and he is 6'1", 135lbs. Not giving him a key anymore to get in the house. He has to pass the eye and sniff test first. I told him to get off drugs completely for a month to start and see if your thinking doesn't clear up, you get more motivated to do things and feel the fog lift. He agreed to stay off and to drug test him starting in two weeks and he will stay in school. No use in testing him for pot now since I know he had it Monday and it usually takes over 30 days to leave your system. If he does acid, it only stays in your system for about 2 hours and most tests don't work. He also will not have the car and has to get a job. Today I took him to fill out one app and to ask a few other businesses if they are hiring, which they weren't. Day by day. My husband paid the deposit for my son to take a 10 day trip to Israel with other groups. This is what I am looking forward to the most for him. He will get the deposit back once he takes the trip. Money comes straight back to my husband. We have some relatives there, so maybe he'll meet them too. Funny side note: found out one of his passwords is "parentsdonttrustme". [/QUOTE]
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