I've been looking everywhere on the internet for some way to describe my difficult child and I finally found, if not an answer, at least comfort in the fact I'm 1) Not just a crazy, horrible parent who thinks awful things about my own child, there really is something not right and 2) I'm not the only one. You could have been describing my 21 y/o child down to every last detail. The behavior was always directed to immediate family, so nobody else sees the side we see and it discredits everything.
