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So many sleepless nights...
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<blockquote data-quote="Enmeshedmom" data-source="post: 729385" data-attributes="member: 22547"><p>Have you ever been to al anon? I just started in January and find it to be extremely helpful. I do the same thing with my son as far as creating horrible stories in my mind of where he is and what he is doing when he isn’t at home. And as far as I know right now he is only smoking pot. It is very hard to recognize that the only person we have any control over is ourselves. Nobody could make me start using meth not even my husband when we’re first dating, so while boyfriend may have introduced it, your son made his own choice to try it. I use to blame all my sons friends for his pot smoking and whatever else but only recently I’m beginnig to realize and except that he doesn’t need somebody else to help him make bad choices he does it all on his own. I like the saying “birds of a feather flock together.” My son wasn’t forced to be friends with the people he chooses he picks them for a reason. We can get off the roller coaster our kids are on and still be ok, I wish you the best.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Enmeshedmom, post: 729385, member: 22547"] Have you ever been to al anon? I just started in January and find it to be extremely helpful. I do the same thing with my son as far as creating horrible stories in my mind of where he is and what he is doing when he isn’t at home. And as far as I know right now he is only smoking pot. It is very hard to recognize that the only person we have any control over is ourselves. Nobody could make me start using meth not even my husband when we’re first dating, so while boyfriend may have introduced it, your son made his own choice to try it. I use to blame all my sons friends for his pot smoking and whatever else but only recently I’m beginnig to realize and except that he doesn’t need somebody else to help him make bad choices he does it all on his own. I like the saying “birds of a feather flock together.” My son wasn’t forced to be friends with the people he chooses he picks them for a reason. We can get off the roller coaster our kids are on and still be ok, I wish you the best. [/QUOTE]
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