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So now the truth comes out ... ex-girlfriend is pregnant!
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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 650744" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Okay, first of all...I am so sorry. What a thing to add to the mix.</p><p> </p><p>Second, are you - or I should say is HE - sure he is the father? I know that sounds kind of mean...but if they were breaking up over the holidays...well, things happen. She would not be the first girl to have a fling because things were bad with the boyfriend. I suggest that when things are further along you, very gently, suggest a DNA test. Probably the best way to approach that with the other parents, who are pretty sure to be insulted, is, "I know you want to protect your daughter and I want to protect my son...so, just to be 100% sure and things don't get nasty in the future if they're fighting or something, let's do a test before he signs any papers." </p><p> </p><p>I've ordered a lot of men to pay child support that come in waiving DNA tests that say they aren't the father. In most states, a man can declare himself the father at the hospital or later with bureau of vital records and that declaration has the same effect as a court order. The only way to set it aside is to go to court and even then, if too much time has passed, the courts won't always relieve them of the duty and I don't think I've ever heard of a woman having to return the money she's received. </p><p> </p><p>Given her age, of course you have to be careful. There's probably charges that could be pressed since he's over 18. But just food for thought. </p><p> </p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/hugs.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":hugs:" title="hugs :hugs:" data-shortname=":hugs:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 650744, member: 17309"] Okay, first of all...I am so sorry. What a thing to add to the mix. Second, are you - or I should say is HE - sure he is the father? I know that sounds kind of mean...but if they were breaking up over the holidays...well, things happen. She would not be the first girl to have a fling because things were bad with the boyfriend. I suggest that when things are further along you, very gently, suggest a DNA test. Probably the best way to approach that with the other parents, who are pretty sure to be insulted, is, "I know you want to protect your daughter and I want to protect my son...so, just to be 100% sure and things don't get nasty in the future if they're fighting or something, let's do a test before he signs any papers." I've ordered a lot of men to pay child support that come in waiving DNA tests that say they aren't the father. In most states, a man can declare himself the father at the hospital or later with bureau of vital records and that declaration has the same effect as a court order. The only way to set it aside is to go to court and even then, if too much time has passed, the courts won't always relieve them of the duty and I don't think I've ever heard of a woman having to return the money she's received. Given her age, of course you have to be careful. There's probably charges that could be pressed since he's over 18. But just food for thought. :hugs: [/QUOTE]
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