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So now the truth comes out ... ex-girlfriend is pregnant!
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<blockquote data-quote="LittleDudesMom" data-source="post: 651801" data-attributes="member: 805"><p>Terry,</p><p></p><p>I in no way presume to know what you and husband, not to mention your difficult child and his ex, are going through. I have to admit though that I was a little put off by his fear tactics with ex. Certainly I am not in your shoes, but to put that kind of fear in her to get her to come around to his thinking was a little off-putting.</p><p></p><p>I am not sitting in judgement of the decision, should she choose to terminate, just the way he handled it as described: <strong><em>"He thinks he talked her into an abortion. He scared the %&@ out of her about how tiny she is, how D was born breech, T (her mom) was also breech (from the grandmother) and a C-section, and even if she places the baby for adoption, she still has to go through labor and delivery. And the baby is coming at the wrong time in her life. She will be a very good mom ... someday ... <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></em></strong></p><p><strong><em>She was crying." </em></strong>It almost sounds like he's trying to coerce her. </p><p></p><p>Moving forward, make sure ex is not blindsided by the new laws in our state which went into effect in November (think thats when it was). She has already met the transvaginal ultrasound rule (at least 24 hours prior to and be offered the option of seeing it)<strong>. </strong>She also will have to have state directed counseling and then <strong>wait 24 hours to have the procedure</strong>. She is getting close to the cut off of having the procedure in a doctor's office or clinic and will probably have to go to a hospital since she is likely going to be in the second trimester.</p><p></p><p>I send you supportive thoughts during this tough time. Hang in there.</p><p></p><p>Sharon</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LittleDudesMom, post: 651801, member: 805"] Terry, I in no way presume to know what you and husband, not to mention your difficult child and his ex, are going through. I have to admit though that I was a little put off by his fear tactics with ex. Certainly I am not in your shoes, but to put that kind of fear in her to get her to come around to his thinking was a little off-putting. I am not sitting in judgement of the decision, should she choose to terminate, just the way he handled it as described: [B][I]"He thinks he talked her into an abortion. He scared the %&@ out of her about how tiny she is, how D was born breech, T (her mom) was also breech (from the grandmother) and a C-section, and even if she places the baby for adoption, she still has to go through labor and delivery. And the baby is coming at the wrong time in her life. She will be a very good mom ... someday ... :( She was crying." [/I][/B]It almost sounds like he's trying to coerce her. [B][I][/I][/B] Moving forward, make sure ex is not blindsided by the new laws in our state which went into effect in November (think thats when it was). She has already met the transvaginal ultrasound rule (at least 24 hours prior to and be offered the option of seeing it)[B]. [/B]She also will have to have state directed counseling and then [B]wait 24 hours to have the procedure[/B]. She is getting close to the cut off of having the procedure in a doctor's office or clinic and will probably have to go to a hospital since she is likely going to be in the second trimester. I send you supportive thoughts during this tough time. Hang in there. Sharon [/QUOTE]
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