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<blockquote data-quote="Blindsided" data-source="post: 757019" data-attributes="member: 23811"><p>Welcome, Andy. I ditto all the advice given here. And, in particular this comment bothered me, probably because I can relate. After reading many books, in my sig. Line, following advice of family and friends, and finding rmthus wonderful group of people, I finally realized I have no control on whether my 41 y.o. Difficult Child drinks herself to death. She has surfed couches from one coast to the other, until she ran off every one of her friends and family. Dispite all of us wanting to help her help herself, she didnt. I finally realized I have no control over her choices. If she chose to drink herself to death, it didn't matter what any of us did for her. </p><p></p><p>Please find the article on detachment in the imitrus area. It gave me a realistic look at what enabling does. </p><p></p><p>Wishing you only the best as you hopefully work through your needs. That's all we have control of.</p><p></p><p>In healing</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Blindsided, post: 757019, member: 23811"] Welcome, Andy. I ditto all the advice given here. And, in particular this comment bothered me, probably because I can relate. After reading many books, in my sig. Line, following advice of family and friends, and finding rmthus wonderful group of people, I finally realized I have no control on whether my 41 y.o. Difficult Child drinks herself to death. She has surfed couches from one coast to the other, until she ran off every one of her friends and family. Dispite all of us wanting to help her help herself, she didnt. I finally realized I have no control over her choices. If she chose to drink herself to death, it didn't matter what any of us did for her. Please find the article on detachment in the imitrus area. It gave me a realistic look at what enabling does. Wishing you only the best as you hopefully work through your needs. That's all we have control of. In healing [/QUOTE]
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