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<blockquote data-quote="Blindsided" data-source="post: 757087" data-attributes="member: 23811"><p>Thank you for your well wishes, they are very much appreciated.</p><p></p><p>Andy, I want you to know I have been where you are. Second guessing, accepting guilt like it is a thorn in my crown. Like self sacrifice and suffering would somehow change the outcome. Then beat myself up for thinking that. What I have learn to accept is that we can't change anyone's behavior but our own.</p><p></p><p>It is from love that I learned to set boundaries for me. What am I willing to accept? Am I operating from a place of logic vs emotions? What is reasonable to expect from any other adult? I finally realized I had to get out of my Difficult Child way. </p><p></p><p>It's so hard. I have read books written by Christian's, Buddhists, clergy, therapist and they all have the same advise. We have to be willing to do the work within us. In a way, set the example for our Difficult Child. </p><p></p><p>Wishing you and yours a clear path forward</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Blindsided, post: 757087, member: 23811"] Thank you for your well wishes, they are very much appreciated. Andy, I want you to know I have been where you are. Second guessing, accepting guilt like it is a thorn in my crown. Like self sacrifice and suffering would somehow change the outcome. Then beat myself up for thinking that. What I have learn to accept is that we can't change anyone's behavior but our own. It is from love that I learned to set boundaries for me. What am I willing to accept? Am I operating from a place of logic vs emotions? What is reasonable to expect from any other adult? I finally realized I had to get out of my Difficult Child way. It's so hard. I have read books written by Christian's, Buddhists, clergy, therapist and they all have the same advise. We have to be willing to do the work within us. In a way, set the example for our Difficult Child. Wishing you and yours a clear path forward [/QUOTE]
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