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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 757166" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Dear AndyThe answers are in you and the responsibility is yours, not his. He is an adult man who gets to decide about his own life, which he is doing. He is deciding to NOT work. He is deciding to steal from his parents. He is deciding to ignore the stay at home order. He is deciding what to buy at the store with your money. He is deciding to ingest pills. Right or wrong all of these decisions he is free to make, and he has done so.</p><p></p><p>Now, you have the right to make decisions too. Which you are doing.</p><p>You decided to give him your card, carte blanch to buy whatever he wants to, despite the fact he has stolen from you before, under the same circumstance. Even had he not specifically stolen in exactly the same way, you already know that he is not trustworthy. Nonetheless, you chose to give him the card.</p><p>You know he doesn't want to work. He has made this clear consistently. Instead, you continue to repeat this to him even though he ignores You:</p><p>He jeopardizes his own safety and yours because he chooses to. . That he does so with his own life is his business to do. But you have decided to jeopardize your own health, and your wife has decided to jeopardize her own health, by permitting him to enter and reenter your home at will.</p><p></p><p>Again, you've made the decision, here to trust him again with your debit card:You bear the responsibility here, not him. He has made the decision over and over again to transgress reasonable boundaries with money. Call it theft. Call it sharing. Call it borrowing. But he chooses to take what is yours without your consent. And you choose to overlook it by over and over again trusting him when he has decided over and over again to take from you.</p><p></p><p>His living with you if you look at it one way is one whole <em>take what I can get to fuel my lifestyle. My lifestyle consists of laying around, drugging and doing whatever I damn well please, no matter who I hurt or even kill.</em> Life has gotten that serious lately. I hope to G-d you decide to stop him.</p><p></p><p>Andy. All of us go through this. Until we decide to stop.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 757166, member: 18958"] Dear AndyThe answers are in you and the responsibility is yours, not his. He is an adult man who gets to decide about his own life, which he is doing. He is deciding to NOT work. He is deciding to steal from his parents. He is deciding to ignore the stay at home order. He is deciding what to buy at the store with your money. He is deciding to ingest pills. Right or wrong all of these decisions he is free to make, and he has done so. Now, you have the right to make decisions too. Which you are doing. You decided to give him your card, carte blanch to buy whatever he wants to, despite the fact he has stolen from you before, under the same circumstance. Even had he not specifically stolen in exactly the same way, you already know that he is not trustworthy. Nonetheless, you chose to give him the card. You know he doesn't want to work. He has made this clear consistently. Instead, you continue to repeat this to him even though he ignores You: He jeopardizes his own safety and yours because he chooses to. . That he does so with his own life is his business to do. But you have decided to jeopardize your own health, and your wife has decided to jeopardize her own health, by permitting him to enter and reenter your home at will. Again, you've made the decision, here to trust him again with your debit card:You bear the responsibility here, not him. He has made the decision over and over again to transgress reasonable boundaries with money. Call it theft. Call it sharing. Call it borrowing. But he chooses to take what is yours without your consent. And you choose to overlook it by over and over again trusting him when he has decided over and over again to take from you. His living with you if you look at it one way is one whole [I]take what I can get to fuel my lifestyle. My lifestyle consists of laying around, drugging and doing whatever I damn well please, no matter who I hurt or even kill.[/I] Life has gotten that serious lately. I hope to G-d you decide to stop him. Andy. All of us go through this. Until we decide to stop. [/QUOTE]
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