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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 746616" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>He sounds Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) to me, another adoptive parent. Paychiatrists are horrible at catching it. I had one kid wr foster adopted who was so sick he killed iur dogs and molested our younger kids and was great at hiding it and scaring the littles into silence but we did find out.</p><p></p><p>Since that day we havent seen him and never want to. Your son doesnt soynd as sick as this one (he was adopted at age 11, a bad mistaKe we made but we thought we could give him the love he never had) and not one of his ex foster parents or psychiatrists knew he was molesting their kids since very young or that he was disturbed much at all. His acting was THAT good. Adults loved him. Kids feared him and none told on him.</p><p></p><p>The adoption community needs to be more open to people adopting kids who are not babies that Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is very common and very dangerous and not always treatable. And doctors need to stop calling it ADHD.</p><p></p><p>Orphanage and foster kids are at very high risk for Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). It is not our faults. This happened before we met them.</p><p></p><p>I send warm hugs and hot chocolate. Try to get him out of your house. He can get help in foster care or anywhere. He does not have to live with you to get treatment.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 746616, member: 1550"] He sounds Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) to me, another adoptive parent. Paychiatrists are horrible at catching it. I had one kid wr foster adopted who was so sick he killed iur dogs and molested our younger kids and was great at hiding it and scaring the littles into silence but we did find out. Since that day we havent seen him and never want to. Your son doesnt soynd as sick as this one (he was adopted at age 11, a bad mistaKe we made but we thought we could give him the love he never had) and not one of his ex foster parents or psychiatrists knew he was molesting their kids since very young or that he was disturbed much at all. His acting was THAT good. Adults loved him. Kids feared him and none told on him. The adoption community needs to be more open to people adopting kids who are not babies that Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is very common and very dangerous and not always treatable. And doctors need to stop calling it ADHD. Orphanage and foster kids are at very high risk for Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). It is not our faults. This happened before we met them. I send warm hugs and hot chocolate. Try to get him out of your house. He can get help in foster care or anywhere. He does not have to live with you to get treatment. [/QUOTE]
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