Hello November Rain,
I can’t add much to what Copa has already said, but just wanted to voice my support. In my opinion, you have done everything right, everything possible to help him whilst protecting your daughter and yourself from harm.
It’s exhausting having these kids in our lives. Even when they are stable we live in fear of a flare up. And when the flare ups come they are soul destroying. I completely understand.
I think we need to remember that while they are our children, they are fully grown adults and need to take responsibility for their own lives. I know you already know this, I’m just reiterating it because when my son has a flare up I begin to doubt myself.
I’m so sorry you find yourself in this situation.
You are not alone. Please vent here as much as you want.
