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<blockquote data-quote="Bettyboo44" data-source="post: 766258" data-attributes="member: 33737">Oh my, that cannot have been easy, 30 years working in a prison. I agree totally that prison is probably where he needs to be. Yeah I know your right, it isn’t important, but more my own worry/dread of how long more is this going to carry on for but equally I am enjoying the peace and I know from all previous calls that it’s of no benefit…I’m just used as a tool to meet his needs for the duration he’s in there. I have read the article on detachment and taken a screenshot to remind myself when I feel myself feeling guilt or uncertainty. It makes so much sense, a bit like you Copabanana, I am so thankful for your words of wisdom and advice. I’m notorious for thinking I know what’s best when it comes to my children (after all I raised them on my own, who else knows what’s best etc) , yet for some reason I trust what you say and utterly do believe it’s for the greater good, which is unfathomable really as we are complete strangers. However I’m not questioning the logistics , instead am just beyond grateful <img class="smilie smilie--emoji" loading="lazy" alt="🙏" title="Folded hands&nbsp; &nbsp; :pray:" src="https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/6.6/png/unicode/64/1f64f.png" data-shortname=":pray:" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="Bettyboo44, post: 766258, member: 33737"] Oh my, that cannot have been easy, 30 years working in a prison. I agree totally that prison is probably where he needs to be. Yeah I know your right, it isn’t important, but more my own worry/dread of how long more is this going to carry on for but equally I am enjoying the peace and I know from all previous calls that it’s of no benefit…I’m just used as a tool to meet his needs for the duration he’s in there. I have read the article on detachment and taken a screenshot to remind myself when I feel myself feeling guilt or uncertainty. It makes so much sense, a bit like you Copabanana, I am so thankful for your words of wisdom and advice. I’m notorious for thinking I know what’s best when it comes to my children (after all I raised them on my own, who else knows what’s best etc) , yet for some reason I trust what you say and utterly do believe it’s for the greater good, which is unfathomable really as we are complete strangers. However I’m not questioning the logistics , instead am just beyond grateful 🙏 [/QUOTE]

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