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<blockquote data-quote="ColleenB" data-source="post: 710940" data-attributes="member: 19887"><p>I feel like my heart is broken and will never heal. I feel like a shell of a person, and I am losing who I am.</p><p></p><p>Son slept until 7 pm, husband got home and went downstairs to talk to him. Last night after he had slept until six pm and then went out, we both felt we wanted to go clean his room up, I know that wasn't necessarily the right thing to do. But we both felt better after. I don't know how he can even think about feeling better in the mess he was living in, and we could smell the cat litter upstairs.</p><p></p><p>He thanked us and said that it did help. But tonight, same thing of course. Husband got him to admit he is using cocaine again. All the signs are there. He said it's only been a few times... but that is a few times too many.</p><p></p><p>We told him he has to get help, we can't live this.</p><p></p><p>The thing about our son is that he is never mean or rude or denies his fault. He has in the past been rude, but never violent and not at all lately. He is very down on himself and said tonight he is sorry he is such a bad person. I told him we have never thought that. He isn't a bad person. He is kind and thoughtful</p><p></p><p>He seems so so lost and my heart is literally broken for him.</p><p></p><p>He had promised to call tomorrow. He has a number to call.</p><p></p><p>I just needed to reach out too....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ColleenB, post: 710940, member: 19887"] I feel like my heart is broken and will never heal. I feel like a shell of a person, and I am losing who I am. Son slept until 7 pm, husband got home and went downstairs to talk to him. Last night after he had slept until six pm and then went out, we both felt we wanted to go clean his room up, I know that wasn't necessarily the right thing to do. But we both felt better after. I don't know how he can even think about feeling better in the mess he was living in, and we could smell the cat litter upstairs. He thanked us and said that it did help. But tonight, same thing of course. Husband got him to admit he is using cocaine again. All the signs are there. He said it's only been a few times... but that is a few times too many. We told him he has to get help, we can't live this. The thing about our son is that he is never mean or rude or denies his fault. He has in the past been rude, but never violent and not at all lately. He is very down on himself and said tonight he is sorry he is such a bad person. I told him we have never thought that. He isn't a bad person. He is kind and thoughtful He seems so so lost and my heart is literally broken for him. He had promised to call tomorrow. He has a number to call. I just needed to reach out too.... [/QUOTE]
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