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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 762192" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I'm so sorry about my phone's typos. I meant we wish it would be one and done after rehab. However that is very rare. So we, as parents, eventually learn how to let it play out and see that we can not really help or fix them. We have no control over anyone else, not even our kids. It's hard to accept.</p><p></p><p>Also your son knows using drugs is a bad idea. No need to tell him. We mostly need to help ourselves. In Nar Anon our go to is to accept what we can't change and give our loved one to our Higher Power. We also try not to bail our kids out of trouble. We learn that our help doesn't help. These principles do work for my husband and me. Therapy is helpful too. We did both Nar Anon and therapy and saved our family.</p><p></p><p> In Nar Anon we don't judge anyone even if they struggle or enable. We quietly allow everyone to speak and never scold or tell others what we should do. </p><p></p><p>My particular meeting is awesome. Its thurs at 6:30 on Zoom and anyone interested can send me a message here. There are many other meetings but ours is rather small...about 10 of us.</p><p></p><p>Blessings.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 762192, member: 23706"] I'm so sorry about my phone's typos. I meant we wish it would be one and done after rehab. However that is very rare. So we, as parents, eventually learn how to let it play out and see that we can not really help or fix them. We have no control over anyone else, not even our kids. It's hard to accept. Also your son knows using drugs is a bad idea. No need to tell him. We mostly need to help ourselves. In Nar Anon our go to is to accept what we can't change and give our loved one to our Higher Power. We also try not to bail our kids out of trouble. We learn that our help doesn't help. These principles do work for my husband and me. Therapy is helpful too. We did both Nar Anon and therapy and saved our family. In Nar Anon we don't judge anyone even if they struggle or enable. We quietly allow everyone to speak and never scold or tell others what we should do. My particular meeting is awesome. Its thurs at 6:30 on Zoom and anyone interested can send me a message here. There are many other meetings but ours is rather small...about 10 of us. Blessings. [/QUOTE]
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