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<blockquote data-quote="Michelle809" data-source="post: 738330" data-attributes="member: 23299"><p>Well, I saw my son this weekend. Had to go by his job since my number was blocked. He says he blocked me because he had disappointed me so much and by not talking to me he couldn't disappoint me again. Not sure what to believe - it seemed truthful but I've been manipulated more than once by him.</p><p></p><p>His ex-girlfriend called me crying/panicking one morning I was there. Said my son had found out where she lives and was stalking her/wouldn't leave. Said she was in her car and scared to get out. I told her to call the police instead of me or drive to the police station. She drove there and he still wouldn't leave until maybe 20 minutes later while trying to talk to her. She never went in and left after he did. He then showed me texts where supposedly she asked him to come over (not sure what to believe from that situation as well). I've told him more than once that he will end up in jail or worse if he doesn't leave her alone, I think he is finally realizing that. I told her to go ahead with a restraining order if she was that concerned.</p><p></p><p>He says he gets it and will not contact her again. Then he says she later that day sent him a message on social media saying she changed her phone number. He was upset that she's still trying to make contact. He says the next day she and her sister were outside of his place when he walked out. The ex asked him if he wanted his headphones and my son says he said no and to keep them. My son then says the ex's sister said she was calling the cops? My son says he then drove off. Seems like a lot of details are missing from that situation but my son says there isn't?</p><p></p><p>Son called a cop friend of his, there is no restraining order - not yet anyway. Son voluntarily went and paid for a counseling session yesterday. Said he realizes he needs help to get through this and over the ex.</p><p></p><p>For now, I'm back to being somewhat hopeful that he may be okay. Of course really hesitant since this is a place I have been at dozens of times before and he always does something to mess it up.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Michelle809, post: 738330, member: 23299"] Well, I saw my son this weekend. Had to go by his job since my number was blocked. He says he blocked me because he had disappointed me so much and by not talking to me he couldn't disappoint me again. Not sure what to believe - it seemed truthful but I've been manipulated more than once by him. His ex-girlfriend called me crying/panicking one morning I was there. Said my son had found out where she lives and was stalking her/wouldn't leave. Said she was in her car and scared to get out. I told her to call the police instead of me or drive to the police station. She drove there and he still wouldn't leave until maybe 20 minutes later while trying to talk to her. She never went in and left after he did. He then showed me texts where supposedly she asked him to come over (not sure what to believe from that situation as well). I've told him more than once that he will end up in jail or worse if he doesn't leave her alone, I think he is finally realizing that. I told her to go ahead with a restraining order if she was that concerned. He says he gets it and will not contact her again. Then he says she later that day sent him a message on social media saying she changed her phone number. He was upset that she's still trying to make contact. He says the next day she and her sister were outside of his place when he walked out. The ex asked him if he wanted his headphones and my son says he said no and to keep them. My son then says the ex's sister said she was calling the cops? My son says he then drove off. Seems like a lot of details are missing from that situation but my son says there isn't? Son called a cop friend of his, there is no restraining order - not yet anyway. Son voluntarily went and paid for a counseling session yesterday. Said he realizes he needs help to get through this and over the ex. For now, I'm back to being somewhat hopeful that he may be okay. Of course really hesitant since this is a place I have been at dozens of times before and he always does something to mess it up. [/QUOTE]
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