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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 766180" data-attributes="member: 12511">All this is so hard...there is help if they will take it...I told my husband I feel like I am frozen...even though I don't feel like I am stressing over it, it just seems hard to concentrate and comprehend what other decisions we need to make.&nbsp; Today, we selected our supplemental plan for Medicare Part B, drug plan, vision plan and dental! Even though we have been old enough for years to switch to&nbsp; medicare, we kept a federal BCBS that he had when he was working, so that our adopted grands could stay on our family insurance policy. The older has aged off our policy, and the youngest also has a Medicaid state ins card so she wont be without coverage.&nbsp; But she makes appointments that she never keeps and has Rx she never takes!All that is overwhelming!&nbsp; Plus we had to make some decisions about investments to change to more conservative options and had to sign off on that. We got our flu and COVID vaccines today. We decided to sign up for a columbarium space for our ashes once we pass...and our church has a garden wall with a plaque with names on it. We have thought about it for a long time. And we did early voting for the election. So many decisions that will affect the rest of our lives.And I'm just done. In about an hour we will pick up GGS from school and he will want to play or go to a park...and one day cycles in to the next.&nbsp; And I'm wondering where is his mom...is she safe...why is she doing this???&nbsp; And it's hard to find any serenity.KsmKsm</blockquote>

[QUOTE="ksm, post: 766180, member: 12511"] All this is so hard...there is help if they will take it...I told my husband I feel like I am frozen...even though I don't feel like I am stressing over it, it just seems hard to concentrate and comprehend what other decisions we need to make. Today, we selected our supplemental plan for Medicare Part B, drug plan, vision plan and dental! Even though we have been old enough for years to switch to medicare, we kept a federal BCBS that he had when he was working, so that our adopted grands could stay on our family insurance policy. The older has aged off our policy, and the youngest also has a Medicaid state ins card so she wont be without coverage. But she makes appointments that she never keeps and has Rx she never takes! All that is overwhelming! Plus we had to make some decisions about investments to change to more conservative options and had to sign off on that. We got our flu and COVID vaccines today. We decided to sign up for a columbarium space for our ashes once we pass...and our church has a garden wall with a plaque with names on it. We have thought about it for a long time. And we did early voting for the election. So many decisions that will affect the rest of our lives. And I'm just done. In about an hour we will pick up GGS from school and he will want to play or go to a park...and one day cycles in to the next. And I'm wondering where is his mom...is she safe...why is she doing this??? And it's hard to find any serenity. Ksm Ksm [/QUOTE]

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