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<blockquote data-quote="katya02" data-source="post: 766616" data-attributes="member: 2884">This is a reply from KSM - I apologize for moving this post! Again, it was suggested that it might be helpful to have a new thread situated on its own.KSM:I hope your son does not come to your house. It's too bad your husband didn't talk to you first! If he comes, will your son's husband come with him to help?If not, I'd tell your husband he needs to call and postpone his surgery until your son is living somewhere else. This would be a deal breaker for me.We went thru a similar situation with our granddaughter...she was psychotic for about two months as she was detoxing from meth. She wasn't violent, but it was awful. At first, she was focused on her bio mom who she had been living with...her mom was &quot;evil and Satan&quot;. At our house, it was my husband who was the evil one. She wanted us to take her to a priest for an exorcism. We aren't even Catholic! Plus we had already flown across the country a month earlier to bring her 18 months old son back to the mid-west. I had my hands full! It was like she was afraid of her child and wouldn't interact with him.I hope your son gets the help he needs...but not at your expense, not emotionally, not physically, and not financially. Ksmdgd #1- now adopted daughter#1 - diagnosed as static encephalopathy, alcohol exposed, DMDD, ADHD and now offcially bipolar. Update...she is now 26 and is still impulsive but more stable.dgd#2 - now adopted daughter#2 - Opposite of sister. Withdraws, instead of rages. In intensive outpatient therapy for drugs, including meth. History of cutting. Updated to add, has been with her abusive boyfriend off and on since 14 years old. She is now 23 and her doctor is meth. Has legal problems from meth possession charges. No longer with the boyfriend, as he returned to his estranged wife.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="katya02, post: 766616, member: 2884"] This is a reply from KSM - I apologize for moving this post! Again, it was suggested that it might be helpful to have a new thread situated on its own. KSM: I hope your son does not come to your house. It's too bad your husband didn't talk to you first! If he comes, will your son's husband come with him to help? If not, I'd tell your husband he needs to call and postpone his surgery until your son is living somewhere else. This would be a deal breaker for me. We went thru a similar situation with our granddaughter...she was psychotic for about two months as she was detoxing from meth. She wasn't violent, but it was awful. At first, she was focused on her bio mom who she had been living with...her mom was "evil and Satan". At our house, it was my husband who was the evil one. She wanted us to take her to a priest for an exorcism. We aren't even Catholic! Plus we had already flown across the country a month earlier to bring her 18 months old son back to the mid-west. I had my hands full! It was like she was afraid of her child and wouldn't interact with him. I hope your son gets the help he needs...but not at your expense, not emotionally, not physically, and not financially. Ksm dgd #1- now adopted daughter#1 - diagnosed as static encephalopathy, alcohol exposed, DMDD, ADHD and now offcially bipolar. Update...she is now 26 and is still impulsive but more stable. dgd#2 - now adopted daughter#2 - Opposite of sister. Withdraws, instead of rages. In intensive outpatient therapy for drugs, including meth. History of cutting. Updated to add, has been with her abusive boyfriend off and on since 14 years old. She is now 23 and her doctor is meth. Has legal problems from meth possession charges. No longer with the boyfriend, as he returned to his estranged wife. [/QUOTE]

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