Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Soon it will be March
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 764794" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p><em>Thank you Copa. It is so hard to love someone with all your heart and also know they are not healthy for you. I wish your son would age out of the bad behavior, have something substantial happen to him to ground him in the right direction. Copa, You are operating out of balance, health and making sense. It is just not healthy for any of us to be around someone that is awful for us. It harms us on a cellular and spiritual level. How old is your son now? Just talking ugly to a plant can kill it, just think of being around a nasty person, it is harmful. You are doing what you have to do for your all around health. </em></p><p><em>Many years ago my husband's bipolar brother was intolerable. He told us that we need to accept him as he is. He is UNACCETABLE as is and no way would we be ok with his moody nasty behavior ever. He tries to contact us, moved to the same town and tells us he is now on medication. The damage is so deep and ugly that there is no turning back, medication of not. There were times that I wanted to walk away and not ever talk to my daughter. Her behavior got that bad. How I found an ounce to tolerate her is a miracle. I told her that her behavior is unacceptable and I don't have to put up with it. I cut her completely off for 3 months and it made a change in her. The biggest change was the belligerence. She can be so deeply ugly, I mean ugly to the core and then she is quick to apologize because I have the strength to blow her off again. I simply cannot take ugly behavior. It is hard being an intuitive empath. Thank you Copa for your wisdom and insight.</em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 764794, member: 22416"] [I]Thank you Copa. It is so hard to love someone with all your heart and also know they are not healthy for you. I wish your son would age out of the bad behavior, have something substantial happen to him to ground him in the right direction. Copa, You are operating out of balance, health and making sense. It is just not healthy for any of us to be around someone that is awful for us. It harms us on a cellular and spiritual level. How old is your son now? Just talking ugly to a plant can kill it, just think of being around a nasty person, it is harmful. You are doing what you have to do for your all around health. Many years ago my husband's bipolar brother was intolerable. He told us that we need to accept him as he is. He is UNACCETABLE as is and no way would we be ok with his moody nasty behavior ever. He tries to contact us, moved to the same town and tells us he is now on medication. The damage is so deep and ugly that there is no turning back, medication of not. There were times that I wanted to walk away and not ever talk to my daughter. Her behavior got that bad. How I found an ounce to tolerate her is a miracle. I told her that her behavior is unacceptable and I don't have to put up with it. I cut her completely off for 3 months and it made a change in her. The biggest change was the belligerence. She can be so deeply ugly, I mean ugly to the core and then she is quick to apologize because I have the strength to blow her off again. I simply cannot take ugly behavior. It is hard being an intuitive empath. Thank you Copa for your wisdom and insight.[/I] [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Soon it will be March
Top