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<blockquote data-quote="newstart" data-source="post: 764795" data-attributes="member: 22416"><p>Hi New Leaf, It sounds like your husband was hanging on to his dad just because it was his dad. My husband wants to hang on to his family simply because they are his family. I remind him that true family does not treat you the way they did us. I think more like a spiritual family, people that want good for us. My dear friends are my family. I love them more than family because they are healthier for us than most of our family. I always think it boils down to chemistry either it is there or not just like when you watch dogs. My dog would find other dogs in the park and become best friends with them and then there are some other dogs that he would bark at and almost get into a fight over. My dog was so laid back and sweet so I never understood why he would dislike other dogs. It has to be chemistry. We humans like dogs just have a clash of chemistry and then there are people that have a rotten disposition and their chemistry is toxic to many people.</p><p>Like your husband New Leaf, my husband brings baggage into our marriage, unresolved childhood drama from his family.</p><p>My husband said it was very hard to live with a person that is as intuitive as me. He said it is invasive that I know things he is thinking about. I told him that we are all born with the ability to be intuitive. My husband's mother taught him to ignore everything and my grandmother taught me to be fully awake and observe everything.</p><p>I am sorry you had a tough time with your husband before he passed. Hopefully your daughter's can come to peace with his death and get their life in order. Each time you post I just want to hear how they straightened out. I want to hear that they have balanced out and are moving forward. I hope this comes soon for you. Big hug back to you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="newstart, post: 764795, member: 22416"] Hi New Leaf, It sounds like your husband was hanging on to his dad just because it was his dad. My husband wants to hang on to his family simply because they are his family. I remind him that true family does not treat you the way they did us. I think more like a spiritual family, people that want good for us. My dear friends are my family. I love them more than family because they are healthier for us than most of our family. I always think it boils down to chemistry either it is there or not just like when you watch dogs. My dog would find other dogs in the park and become best friends with them and then there are some other dogs that he would bark at and almost get into a fight over. My dog was so laid back and sweet so I never understood why he would dislike other dogs. It has to be chemistry. We humans like dogs just have a clash of chemistry and then there are people that have a rotten disposition and their chemistry is toxic to many people. Like your husband New Leaf, my husband brings baggage into our marriage, unresolved childhood drama from his family. My husband said it was very hard to live with a person that is as intuitive as me. He said it is invasive that I know things he is thinking about. I told him that we are all born with the ability to be intuitive. My husband's mother taught him to ignore everything and my grandmother taught me to be fully awake and observe everything. I am sorry you had a tough time with your husband before he passed. Hopefully your daughter's can come to peace with his death and get their life in order. Each time you post I just want to hear how they straightened out. I want to hear that they have balanced out and are moving forward. I hope this comes soon for you. Big hug back to you. [/QUOTE]
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